Jefferson Fisher

Are you just trying to use this to also control your own environment and how they should react? I mean, you know me. I know you. We're pretty chill. Right, right, right. If you're watching a show that I don't agree with, all right. And so it's how much are you carrying? Why are you picking it up? Why are you holding it? Now, again, it's that dynamic with...

Are you just trying to use this to also control your own environment and how they should react? I mean, you know me. I know you. We're pretty chill. Right, right, right. If you're watching a show that I don't agree with, all right. And so it's how much are you carrying? Why are you picking it up? Why are you holding it? Now, again, it's that dynamic with...

They continue to belittle me, put me down. They always make fun of me. They always make me feel less at that family reunion. Then you don't go. So there's some practical things just physically. Let's put it in the physical sense. You have to be physically near them. Do you have to choose to be around them or talk to them? I mean, those are some of your base levels.

They continue to belittle me, put me down. They always make fun of me. They always make me feel less at that family reunion. Then you don't go. So there's some practical things just physically. Let's put it in the physical sense. You have to be physically near them. Do you have to choose to be around them or talk to them? I mean, those are some of your base levels.

They continue to belittle me, put me down. They always make fun of me. They always make me feel less at that family reunion. Then you don't go. So there's some practical things just physically. Let's put it in the physical sense. You have to be physically near them. Do you have to choose to be around them or talk to them? I mean, those are some of your base levels.

You're right.

You're right.

You're right.

Right, yeah. Yeah, I definitely, and I mean, I have my own grandparents that love to use all caps on their Facebook posts. You know what I mean? And so it, it's real easy to go, oh, they just have a different opinion than me, then I need to cut them off, then this isn't serving me anymore.

Right, yeah. Yeah, I definitely, and I mean, I have my own grandparents that love to use all caps on their Facebook posts. You know what I mean? And so it, it's real easy to go, oh, they just have a different opinion than me, then I need to cut them off, then this isn't serving me anymore.

Right, yeah. Yeah, I definitely, and I mean, I have my own grandparents that love to use all caps on their Facebook posts. You know what I mean? And so it, it's real easy to go, oh, they just have a different opinion than me, then I need to cut them off, then this isn't serving me anymore.

I feel like you can get really toxic with that kind of behavior when you put up so many boundaries that you can't move. And so that's a, you said something that gave me the ick, but I think that's, that was a point.

I feel like you can get really toxic with that kind of behavior when you put up so many boundaries that you can't move. And so that's a, you said something that gave me the ick, but I think that's, that was a point.

I feel like you can get really toxic with that kind of behavior when you put up so many boundaries that you can't move. And so that's a, you said something that gave me the ick, but I think that's, that was a point.

Yeah, and that's what I meant about weaponizing. They objectify it in a way of, well, this relationship isn't symbiotic. This isn't serving me anymore. I feel like that's a word that is, I get the same ick. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But there are people who won't take a second, they won't hesitate to use that kind of logic.

Yeah, and that's what I meant about weaponizing. They objectify it in a way of, well, this relationship isn't symbiotic. This isn't serving me anymore. I feel like that's a word that is, I get the same ick. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But there are people who won't take a second, they won't hesitate to use that kind of logic.

Yeah, and that's what I meant about weaponizing. They objectify it in a way of, well, this relationship isn't symbiotic. This isn't serving me anymore. I feel like that's a word that is, I get the same ick. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But there are people who won't take a second, they won't hesitate to use that kind of logic.

I'm all for, if there is a line where, let's say you are in a position with a friendship and that person has continually just treated you poorly, turns out they're not a friend, they backstab you, they talk bad about you, cut them off, no problem.

I'm all for, if there is a line where, let's say you are in a position with a friendship and that person has continually just treated you poorly, turns out they're not a friend, they backstab you, they talk bad about you, cut them off, no problem.

I'm all for, if there is a line where, let's say you are in a position with a friendship and that person has continually just treated you poorly, turns out they're not a friend, they backstab you, they talk bad about you, cut them off, no problem.