Jefferson Fisher
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On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)
you to look more controlled and more confident in that conversation.
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)
And all of a sudden, when it's like this, instead of it slowly begins like this, just by the silence of understanding, hearing their words echo back, withdraws that sting.
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)
It never stings as bad.
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)
No, it's not how we're wired.
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)
It takes discipline.
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)
It takes real discipline.
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)
When I hear people take a breath before they respond,
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)
I know what's about to come out has a much more heavy footing to it.
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)
If you were to just ask me, you know, how was your day?
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)
Or how are you doing?
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)
I'm like, good, good.
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)
I'm great.
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)
Everything's good.
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)
And I have that quick response.
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)
And if you instead were to ask me, how was your day?
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)
And I went...
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)
I'm good.
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)
Yeah, I'm good.
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)
Now, what's the difference?
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Jefferson Fisher: The #1 Communication Mistake People Make in Arguments (Do THIS Before You Respond to Instantly Lower Tension)
Same thing.