Jefferson Fisher

It's just going to continue to go around because you're not hitting that root cause.

It's just going to continue to go around because you're not hitting that root cause.

It's just going to continue to go around because you're not hitting that root cause.

Hmm.

Hmm.

Hmm.

that that takes a lot of inner work of writing it down yeah i mean that's just it's plain and simple there's a difference between distilling keeping it in your head and actually getting it on paper uh because that that's going to make it much more tangible of what am i asking for what is the question i need this person to answer rather than what is the feeling i can convince myself that they're giving me and it's a big big difference every time i've never considered that dude

that that takes a lot of inner work of writing it down yeah i mean that's just it's plain and simple there's a difference between distilling keeping it in your head and actually getting it on paper uh because that that's going to make it much more tangible of what am i asking for what is the question i need this person to answer rather than what is the feeling i can convince myself that they're giving me and it's a big big difference every time i've never considered that dude

that that takes a lot of inner work of writing it down yeah i mean that's just it's plain and simple there's a difference between distilling keeping it in your head and actually getting it on paper uh because that that's going to make it much more tangible of what am i asking for what is the question i need this person to answer rather than what is the feeling i can convince myself that they're giving me and it's a big big difference every time i've never considered that dude

Yeah, absolutely. So if you ask that hard question, are you cheating on me? And the Amiga will go, no. The answer to your question, that didn't make you feel any better. Because you weren't looking for a conversational answer. You're looking for a feeling. You got it. And so you got to extract that out. Yes. And so the person can't give you feelings.

Yeah, absolutely. So if you ask that hard question, are you cheating on me? And the Amiga will go, no. The answer to your question, that didn't make you feel any better. Because you weren't looking for a conversational answer. You're looking for a feeling. You got it. And so you got to extract that out. Yes. And so the person can't give you feelings.

Yeah, absolutely. So if you ask that hard question, are you cheating on me? And the Amiga will go, no. The answer to your question, that didn't make you feel any better. Because you weren't looking for a conversational answer. You're looking for a feeling. You got it. And so you got to extract that out. Yes. And so the person can't give you feelings.

And that's all something you have within yourself. I can't make you feel a certain way. You know that conversation. And so it's the same thing when they answer the question, but yet you still feel it.

And that's all something you have within yourself. I can't make you feel a certain way. You know that conversation. And so it's the same thing when they answer the question, but yet you still feel it.

And that's all something you have within yourself. I can't make you feel a certain way. You know that conversation. And so it's the same thing when they answer the question, but yet you still feel it.

like i'm i am i need i need i need that feeling i need that vacuum from you give me all the feelings where i feel comfortable yeah yes let me feel good and safe and secure you're not going to get that not in the way you asked that question dude that's profound that means i would almost recommend somebody hold off on what i would say like the buck stops here conversation yeah until like you you write about eloquently until you know exactly what you're asking

like i'm i am i need i need i need that feeling i need that vacuum from you give me all the feelings where i feel comfortable yeah yes let me feel good and safe and secure you're not going to get that not in the way you asked that question dude that's profound that means i would almost recommend somebody hold off on what i would say like the buck stops here conversation yeah until like you you write about eloquently until you know exactly what you're asking

like i'm i am i need i need i need that feeling i need that vacuum from you give me all the feelings where i feel comfortable yeah yes let me feel good and safe and secure you're not going to get that not in the way you asked that question dude that's profound that means i would almost recommend somebody hold off on what i would say like the buck stops here conversation yeah until like you you write about eloquently until you know exactly what you're asking

Yeah, how you want to feel after it.

Yeah, how you want to feel after it.