Jefferson Fisher

And so I've been through that whole process. And the team that's publishing it said, I think you really have something to say. And I said, well, okay, I'll... We'll figure it out. So what this book does is it distills really my framework for how I communicate. And my prayer is that when they read this, they really don't need me anymore. Like there's the framework.

The framework is that when you speak, when you need to say what you need to say, you're going to say it with control. You're going to say it with confidence. You're going to say it to connect. And those three really are your foundation for almost any conversation. You can start making your own Jefferson Fisher communication videos

The framework is that when you speak, when you need to say what you need to say, you're going to say it with control. You're going to say it with confidence. You're going to say it to connect. And those three really are your foundation for almost any conversation. You can start making your own Jefferson Fisher communication videos

The framework is that when you speak, when you need to say what you need to say, you're going to say it with control. You're going to say it with confidence. You're going to say it to connect. And those three really are your foundation for almost any conversation. You can start making your own Jefferson Fisher communication videos

And the whole premise is that you can change everything in your life by changing the next conversation. I know that it doesn't matter what I said in the last one. I can change everything with simply what I say next. Say next. Yeah.

And the whole premise is that you can change everything in your life by changing the next conversation. I know that it doesn't matter what I said in the last one. I can change everything with simply what I say next. Say next. Yeah.

And the whole premise is that you can change everything in your life by changing the next conversation. I know that it doesn't matter what I said in the last one. I can change everything with simply what I say next. Say next. Yeah.

Yeah, help me, brother. Yeah, the whole premise of the book is to never win an argument. We have so many blogs and there's other books out there of how to win every argument. I just think it's snake oil. It's empty. It's not going to get you anywhere. Because when you win, you lose a lot more. You lose their respect. You lose the relationship. What did you win? You and I are in an argument.

Yeah, help me, brother. Yeah, the whole premise of the book is to never win an argument. We have so many blogs and there's other books out there of how to win every argument. I just think it's snake oil. It's empty. It's not going to get you anywhere. Because when you win, you lose a lot more. You lose their respect. You lose the relationship. What did you win? You and I are in an argument.

Yeah, help me, brother. Yeah, the whole premise of the book is to never win an argument. We have so many blogs and there's other books out there of how to win every argument. I just think it's snake oil. It's empty. It's not going to get you anywhere. Because when you win, you lose a lot more. You lose their respect. You lose the relationship. What did you win? You and I are in an argument.

I send that zinger that's going to hurt and burn in your eyes, and you walk off, and I won. Great. Now what? It's like the golf clap. Congrats, bro. You got it. What did you win? Congrats. You won their contempt. You won the awkward silence now as you pass each other down the hall. You still have to probably work with this person. You probably still have to live with this person.

I send that zinger that's going to hurt and burn in your eyes, and you walk off, and I won. Great. Now what? It's like the golf clap. Congrats, bro. You got it. What did you win? Congrats. You won their contempt. You won the awkward silence now as you pass each other down the hall. You still have to probably work with this person. You probably still have to live with this person.

I send that zinger that's going to hurt and burn in your eyes, and you walk off, and I won. Great. Now what? It's like the golf clap. Congrats, bro. You got it. What did you win? Congrats. You won their contempt. You won the awkward silence now as you pass each other down the hall. You still have to probably work with this person. You probably still have to live with this person.

All you've won now is to be first up to apologize. That's what you've won. Congrats. Congrats. Yeah, just enjoy that trophy. And so the whole premise is to never win an argument because you'll start to lose the relationship. And what you need to do is stop seeing arguments as something to win and as knots to unravel.

All you've won now is to be first up to apologize. That's what you've won. Congrats. Congrats. Yeah, just enjoy that trophy. And so the whole premise is to never win an argument because you'll start to lose the relationship. And what you need to do is stop seeing arguments as something to win and as knots to unravel.

All you've won now is to be first up to apologize. That's what you've won. Congrats. Congrats. Yeah, just enjoy that trophy. And so the whole premise is to never win an argument because you'll start to lose the relationship. And what you need to do is stop seeing arguments as something to win and as knots to unravel.

When you can start, instead of pulling your way or my way, and starting to go, help me see the knot, begin to unravel them, meaning having something to learn rather than something to prove, your life is going to be a whole lot better.

When you can start, instead of pulling your way or my way, and starting to go, help me see the knot, begin to unravel them, meaning having something to learn rather than something to prove, your life is going to be a whole lot better.

When you can start, instead of pulling your way or my way, and starting to go, help me see the knot, begin to unravel them, meaning having something to learn rather than something to prove, your life is going to be a whole lot better.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. And it's a logical question because, and everybody's got this, that's why rule two is say it with confidence. Because what happens is the more words you give, the less you say. Yes. The longer it takes you to tell the truth, the more it sounds like a lie. Right.