Jefferson Fisher

Two is I'm not.

I'm not asking to change your mind.

I'm not asking for an apology.

I'm not asking for whatever it is.

What they think, that's what you're after.

And three is I'm open.

I'm open to a conversation.

I'm open to listening.

I'm open to understanding.

Whenever you can just crack the door open of saying the conversation is here.

And sometimes that's not enough.

They're not going to do it.

And in that case, what I like to say is then you have to live out the conversation and understand that if you can't be a bridge, be a lighthouse.

You know, if they don't want to come across to me and they burn the bridge, well, then they're at least going to know where I am and they're going to know what I stand for.

And they're going to see the light that I'm going to try to bring, even if they don't want to talk.

They're waiting for the, you know, I know there's distance, but you just, you know, and they're expecting... Who's going to apologize first?

I think that for relationships and family, you know, the hard stuff, it becomes this petty fight over, well, I'm not doing anything until they apologize.

And well, okay, you do it at your own peril.

Then say goodbye to it.

Say goodbye to it.