Jefferson Fisher

It's typically the most powerful people say very little. It's the little dog that yips the most. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Just runs and runs and runs. Yeah.

It's typically the most powerful people say very little. It's the little dog that yips the most. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Just runs and runs and runs. Yeah.

It's typically the most powerful people say very little. It's the little dog that yips the most. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Just runs and runs and runs. Yeah.

You have to add a lot of silence. So when you can add distance between what somebody has said and how you respond. Every time it gives you a lot more control and especially the perception of control. So let's say you and I are having a doubt and all of a sudden you just throw the worst insult ever. And I don't say anything back. It's the worst, man.

You have to add a lot of silence. So when you can add distance between what somebody has said and how you respond. Every time it gives you a lot more control and especially the perception of control. So let's say you and I are having a doubt and all of a sudden you just throw the worst insult ever. And I don't say anything back. It's the worst, man.

You have to add a lot of silence. So when you can add distance between what somebody has said and how you respond. Every time it gives you a lot more control and especially the perception of control. So let's say you and I are having a doubt and all of a sudden you just throw the worst insult ever. And I don't say anything back. It's the worst, man.

It still looks bad.

It still looks bad.

It still looks bad.

Forever. Right? Yeah. And so whenever you, when somebody walks himself out on a plank, and you just let them hang there. I mean, that's where you really have your sense of your power move of using silence because they know that they walked off on that ledge. So when you say unplug, it's really the concept of Knowing the power of the pause. Knowing that I don't have to say anything.

Forever. Right? Yeah. And so whenever you, when somebody walks himself out on a plank, and you just let them hang there. I mean, that's where you really have your sense of your power move of using silence because they know that they walked off on that ledge. So when you say unplug, it's really the concept of Knowing the power of the pause. Knowing that I don't have to say anything.

Forever. Right? Yeah. And so whenever you, when somebody walks himself out on a plank, and you just let them hang there. I mean, that's where you really have your sense of your power move of using silence because they know that they walked off on that ledge. So when you say unplug, it's really the concept of Knowing the power of the pause. Knowing that I don't have to say anything.

Yeah, you can take your ball and go home, but it's more of the basis of I just don't have to move because I'm confident in what I know and what I have to say. Same thing we were talking about gaslighters. That idea of when you're confident, I see things differently. You can disagree with me. That's fine. It's okay to disagree. I mean, now you're cool. Now you're cool hand Luke.

Yeah, you can take your ball and go home, but it's more of the basis of I just don't have to move because I'm confident in what I know and what I have to say. Same thing we were talking about gaslighters. That idea of when you're confident, I see things differently. You can disagree with me. That's fine. It's okay to disagree. I mean, now you're cool. Now you're cool hand Luke.

Yeah, you can take your ball and go home, but it's more of the basis of I just don't have to move because I'm confident in what I know and what I have to say. Same thing we were talking about gaslighters. That idea of when you're confident, I see things differently. You can disagree with me. That's fine. It's okay to disagree. I mean, now you're cool. Now you're cool hand Luke.

Otherwise, when you're having to go, no, no, no, no, that's not true. And you're bouncing every which way. You're getting heightened. You're yelling. Now you're saying, I'm grasping for control. One with the pause says, no, I'm in control. Much different feeling, much different vibe.

Otherwise, when you're having to go, no, no, no, no, that's not true. And you're bouncing every which way. You're getting heightened. You're yelling. Now you're saying, I'm grasping for control. One with the pause says, no, I'm in control. Much different feeling, much different vibe.

Otherwise, when you're having to go, no, no, no, no, that's not true. And you're bouncing every which way. You're getting heightened. You're yelling. Now you're saying, I'm grasping for control. One with the pause says, no, I'm in control. Much different feeling, much different vibe.

Yeah.

Yeah.