Jefferson Fisher

Oh, um... Well, if you're in law school, I would still... I'm sure your law school has advocacy. First of all, this is a very transactional answer, but your school probably has advocacy teams. I highly encourage those. They're a great way to learn and do any of that. If you get flustered, understand that that's probably just a sense of your nervous system.

Oh, um... Well, if you're in law school, I would still... I'm sure your law school has advocacy. First of all, this is a very transactional answer, but your school probably has advocacy teams. I highly encourage those. They're a great way to learn and do any of that. If you get flustered, understand that that's probably just a sense of your nervous system.

You need to be much more available to adding your breath. Breath is what's going to control those nerves. And also understand...

You need to be much more available to adding your breath. Breath is what's going to control those nerves. And also understand...

You need to be much more available to adding your breath. Breath is what's going to control those nerves. And also understand...

if you just don't want to be somebody in the courtroom you don't have to be there's tons of training actual attorneys that never see the light a day of a courtroom and do wonderful things in the world you can have a good life and not get on stage yeah yeah yeah for sure you can uh i mean i know lots of attorneys that even go into a hearing would terrify them so it just takes all the time they got they got it go with what's natural how do you recover

if you just don't want to be somebody in the courtroom you don't have to be there's tons of training actual attorneys that never see the light a day of a courtroom and do wonderful things in the world you can have a good life and not get on stage yeah yeah yeah for sure you can uh i mean i know lots of attorneys that even go into a hearing would terrify them so it just takes all the time they got they got it go with what's natural how do you recover

if you just don't want to be somebody in the courtroom you don't have to be there's tons of training actual attorneys that never see the light a day of a courtroom and do wonderful things in the world you can have a good life and not get on stage yeah yeah yeah for sure you can uh i mean i know lots of attorneys that even go into a hearing would terrify them so it just takes all the time they got they got it go with what's natural how do you recover

Oh, how do you recover? Immediately say, I should not have said that. Okay, put it out there. Immediately take ownership of it. Okay. If you can say, I shouldn't have said that, or immediately, that was unfair, or that was unhelpful, you need to say what they're thinking. You have to go ahead and say what they're already accusing you of. That wasn't nice. That was unfair. That wasn't helpful.

Oh, how do you recover? Immediately say, I should not have said that. Okay, put it out there. Immediately take ownership of it. Okay. If you can say, I shouldn't have said that, or immediately, that was unfair, or that was unhelpful, you need to say what they're thinking. You have to go ahead and say what they're already accusing you of. That wasn't nice. That was unfair. That wasn't helpful.

Oh, how do you recover? Immediately say, I should not have said that. Okay, put it out there. Immediately take ownership of it. Okay. If you can say, I shouldn't have said that, or immediately, that was unfair, or that was unhelpful, you need to say what they're thinking. You have to go ahead and say what they're already accusing you of. That wasn't nice. That was unfair. That wasn't helpful.

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Yeah. Almost even what they're feeling. Yeah. Okay. You have to get that out front, apologize, depending on what you said, and get back on it. But the longer you delay, like if you withhold that apology, there's lots of people where you know all they have to do is apologize and they just won't. They'll hold it. It only makes things worse.

Yeah. Almost even what they're feeling. Yeah. Okay. You have to get that out front, apologize, depending on what you said, and get back on it. But the longer you delay, like if you withhold that apology, there's lots of people where you know all they have to do is apologize and they just won't. They'll hold it. It only makes things worse.

Yeah. Almost even what they're feeling. Yeah. Okay. You have to get that out front, apologize, depending on what you said, and get back on it. But the longer you delay, like if you withhold that apology, there's lots of people where you know all they have to do is apologize and they just won't. They'll hold it. It only makes things worse.

Well, let's just put it as how do you disagree with really anybody? I mean, you can disagree with a narcissist versus it's the same thing. One is like we talked about, I see things differently. Another is I lean differently or I lean the opposite. I tend to lean the opposite or I take another approach. I love to have I take another approach.

Well, let's just put it as how do you disagree with really anybody? I mean, you can disagree with a narcissist versus it's the same thing. One is like we talked about, I see things differently. Another is I lean differently or I lean the opposite. I tend to lean the opposite or I take another approach. I love to have I take another approach.

Well, let's just put it as how do you disagree with really anybody? I mean, you can disagree with a narcissist versus it's the same thing. One is like we talked about, I see things differently. Another is I lean differently or I lean the opposite. I tend to lean the opposite or I take another approach. I love to have I take another approach.