Jefferson Fisher

And if I think about all the times where I think I might have gaslit someone, you know, in relationships, backs against the wall, and you're having an argument with someone.

It's quite difficult in my head to know the difference between the word like just saying something that isn't necessarily true or is your perception of things versus like gaslighting.

Is the difference in your mind intention?

Like if I give my version of reality.

Yeah.

We were at that party.

You said this thing.

I saw the person roll their eyes and then they walked away.

I think they're really offended.

I think you offended them.

Right.

What's the difference between that and me gaslighting someone?

Of between lying and gaslighting?

Yeah, like I'm trying to understand in that context you gave about going to a party, someone said something and then they walk off.

What's the difference between if that's how you saw reality and you're communicating it versus gaslighting someone?

It's to the intention.

It's the intention.

Okay.

Is there a certain type of person that's more susceptible to being gaslit or to being victimized in any way with conversation, in your view?

So do you think women get gaslit more than men?