Jefferson Fisher
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
I think anybody here that go, well, that's really understandable.
What if they don't?
It's always the, what if they do?
Well, okay, let's assume that they do.
What happens next?
If they do, you push them away.
What happens?
It's seeing that your life isn't going to fall apart.
Now, if I come into the conversation and I am not trying to sugarcoat it, and if I'm not trying to make it to where...
I'm only saying things to placate you, to make you feel good and not being genuine.
I've already set up the conversation and I've set up the relationship on fake.
I'm just giving you a mask.
I'm giving you a character of what I can tell is going to appease you.
I'm going to be the hero.
I'm going to be the fixer.
I'm going to be the happy one.
I'm going to be the one who's always bubbly and can never be sad.
And you give them a character when you choose not to be authentic in the conversation.
So the thought of, if I do this, I'm going to push them away.
And if you do, what happens?