Jefferson Fisher

And he like really like offloaded it to me in a way where I'm like, this is a problem for him.

She just takes so long to get ready.

And she's like, which means they're always late to things.

A lot of guys can relate to this, including myself.

But the way he said it to me was surprising.

And I remember thinking, should he just go and have this conversation with her?

Or is this like an illegitimate concern to raise?

And I think that sometimes, you know, because you were talking about your experience with Sierra and her saying, like, either way, it's a good thing.

Are all arguments warranted?

Like, is that argument, you take too long to get ready and it's pissing me off?

Is that a valid thing to raise with your partner?

I think that's a really good point, which is we're all just dealing with

other people's inner child.

Like we're all dealing with, it's just like me as a child facing you as a child.

I know we look like adults now.

I have grey hair, but it's really still us just playing out the stories and narratives from our childhood oftentimes.

It's interesting when you have one parent that conducted themselves in a certain way and the other parent was the opposite.

What then happens to you?

Like which communication style you then adopt?

What is it about our communication do you think that makes us accidentally disliked by other people?