Jefferson Fisher

It sounds fake.

It sounds fake.

And how does it sound fake?

Give me some color.

Bestie bombing.

Yeah.

I don't know.

Was that real or not, Stephen?

It's so funny, yeah, because we think we can spot everyone else's fake laugh and no one can spot ours.

Exactly.

A really surprising point of feedback or compliment someone gave me once, and it's surprising because I never considered it to be something that people were noticing, is when I do like meet and greets, and you're meeting say 100 people before or after a talk or whatever, and they're coming up one at a time,

I will get DMs in the preceding days of people telling me that they liked the way that they watched me pay attention to someone else.

Do you get this?

All the time.

Yeah.

They're watching.

They're watching how interested you are in the person that's talking to you.

Obviously, it's not something I thought about before until I probably had about 20 messages over the last...

A year or two from people saying, and do you know what I noticed, Stephen?

How much you were paying attention to the person that spoke to you.