Jefferson Fisher

And it was also something that fit my life.

I think there's so many times people like you and me or other creators out there feel like we have to mold our life to fit the expectation rather than taking the expectation

And dissolving that down, washing it down, purifying that and making it fit your life.

And so when I make my podcast, they're short because that's the time I got, you know, so not trying to.

make it into something, even like this room.

And I'm sure with yours, it's not nearly as fancy as it looks like it's a small little, small little space.

And I just, this is the first time I, when I started this podcast that I had an actual real camera and I had to Google, you know, every setting possible on the thing.

So that's, that's how it started.

Probably the same as yours, man.

And even the timing of words and the tone of words.

matter so let's just say the word okay like the what should what is almost universally accepted in most languages okay okay like we get that it's a thumbs up it's a sign of approval maybe understanding some type of quick connection but imagine if your child instead of saying okay said okay right like

Now, all of a sudden you feel different or maybe your spouse or your boyfriend, girlfriend goes, okay, just the difference in the sound of the word, communicate something entirely different, whether it's okay or okay.

Like there is all kinds of ways that we can communicate

So that's one.

Second of all, the impact of your words is that they cement in memories.

I'm willing to bet that anybody listening right now can remember a time when they were on the playground.

And there was a kid that came up to them, maybe a group, and they can probably still remember that person's name, who said something to them, made fun of their shirt, made fun of their glasses, called them a name, made fun of their hair, their skin, their shoes, whatever it is.

And it created an insecurity in them that they have remembered throughout their entire life.

And there's so many things that we forget in life.

I don't remember what I had for breakfast.