Jefferson Fisher

They're questions of this needs to happen for this reason. They might be necessary questions. And if you have this communication, this conversation with them of what's going to be helpful, when can I bring this up? Because there's certain things you can't just continue to push off. You can't continue to push off. That would be my recommendation. That's at least what we do in my household.

We have a three-question rule until later, and we're very quick to say, is this something we need to talk about now? And already knowing if each one of us have had a very busy day, the issues that are going to take priority, because sometimes we can't even get into a conversation without somebody needing help. you know, a cheese stick, uh, or asking for something to drink.

We have a three-question rule until later, and we're very quick to say, is this something we need to talk about now? And already knowing if each one of us have had a very busy day, the issues that are going to take priority, because sometimes we can't even get into a conversation without somebody needing help. you know, a cheese stick, uh, or asking for something to drink.

We have a three-question rule until later, and we're very quick to say, is this something we need to talk about now? And already knowing if each one of us have had a very busy day, the issues that are going to take priority, because sometimes we can't even get into a conversation without somebody needing help. you know, a cheese stick, uh, or asking for something to drink.

So that's just kind of, that's part of it. But give you some insight there. It's, it's for me, any additional questions when I come in the door and I know she and I've had this conversation, They feel like additional demands, like a pop quiz. And if I don't have the answer, I start to feel like a failure. And then I get more overstimulated and it just gets worse.

So that's just kind of, that's part of it. But give you some insight there. It's, it's for me, any additional questions when I come in the door and I know she and I've had this conversation, They feel like additional demands, like a pop quiz. And if I don't have the answer, I start to feel like a failure. And then I get more overstimulated and it just gets worse.

So that's just kind of, that's part of it. But give you some insight there. It's, it's for me, any additional questions when I come in the door and I know she and I've had this conversation, They feel like additional demands, like a pop quiz. And if I don't have the answer, I start to feel like a failure. And then I get more overstimulated and it just gets worse.

So that would be my recommendation for you, Mac. That was a great question. Question number two. Hey, Jefferson, I've heard... You talk about how your content on improving listening skills is your least popular. I'm actually very interested in that topic. What are some ways to be a better listener? David, you're exactly right.

So that would be my recommendation for you, Mac. That was a great question. Question number two. Hey, Jefferson, I've heard... You talk about how your content on improving listening skills is your least popular. I'm actually very interested in that topic. What are some ways to be a better listener? David, you're exactly right.

So that would be my recommendation for you, Mac. That was a great question. Question number two. Hey, Jefferson, I've heard... You talk about how your content on improving listening skills is your least popular. I'm actually very interested in that topic. What are some ways to be a better listener? David, you're exactly right.

Anytime I've made a video or put any kind of content out on how to be a better listener, you know how many people like it? hardly anybody. It's always my least viewed video because nobody wants to be a better listener. We want them to be a better listener. We want you to be a better listener, but we never want to be that person. Uh, and funny how that happens.

Anytime I've made a video or put any kind of content out on how to be a better listener, you know how many people like it? hardly anybody. It's always my least viewed video because nobody wants to be a better listener. We want them to be a better listener. We want you to be a better listener, but we never want to be that person. Uh, and funny how that happens.

Anytime I've made a video or put any kind of content out on how to be a better listener, you know how many people like it? hardly anybody. It's always my least viewed video because nobody wants to be a better listener. We want them to be a better listener. We want you to be a better listener, but we never want to be that person. Uh, and funny how that happens.

My most viewed content is always how to handle the toxic person, the mean person, what you can do to, to hold your ground with him. It's never how to be a better listener or be more empathetic or be more understanding. Um, That's the way the world works. David, how to be a better listener. This is my overview for this.

My most viewed content is always how to handle the toxic person, the mean person, what you can do to, to hold your ground with him. It's never how to be a better listener or be more empathetic or be more understanding. Um, That's the way the world works. David, how to be a better listener. This is my overview for this.

My most viewed content is always how to handle the toxic person, the mean person, what you can do to, to hold your ground with him. It's never how to be a better listener or be more empathetic or be more understanding. Um, That's the way the world works. David, how to be a better listener. This is my overview for this.

There's something what they call active listening, which I think is kind of a weird name for it. But they term active listening when somebody goes, mm-hmm.

There's something what they call active listening, which I think is kind of a weird name for it. But they term active listening when somebody goes, mm-hmm.

There's something what they call active listening, which I think is kind of a weird name for it. But they term active listening when somebody goes, mm-hmm.

yeah oh oh right right and they just they continually start to almost talk in non-verbal whenever they're listening to you that i find me personally i find annoying it can go too far it can go it can definitely go too far where you feel like this isn't really sincere now i've been on plenty of podcasts and the other person's like right oh that's that's so true that i find to be completely genuine