Jefferson Fisher

yeah oh oh right right and they just they continually start to almost talk in non-verbal whenever they're listening to you that i find me personally i find annoying it can go too far it can go it can definitely go too far where you feel like this isn't really sincere now i've been on plenty of podcasts and the other person's like right oh that's that's so true that i find to be completely genuine

yeah oh oh right right and they just they continually start to almost talk in non-verbal whenever they're listening to you that i find me personally i find annoying it can go too far it can go it can definitely go too far where you feel like this isn't really sincere now i've been on plenty of podcasts and the other person's like right oh that's that's so true that i find to be completely genuine

That's completely genuine. It's when you can go too far with it. So there's that point of active listening, which is really just a way of engaging you, continuing to give you something to do while you're listening, while you're absorbing the information. So that's something I don't find unhelpful, but I want you to know that is out there. Here's what I would recommend to be a better listener.

That's completely genuine. It's when you can go too far with it. So there's that point of active listening, which is really just a way of engaging you, continuing to give you something to do while you're listening, while you're absorbing the information. So that's something I don't find unhelpful, but I want you to know that is out there. Here's what I would recommend to be a better listener.

That's completely genuine. It's when you can go too far with it. So there's that point of active listening, which is really just a way of engaging you, continuing to give you something to do while you're listening, while you're absorbing the information. So that's something I don't find unhelpful, but I want you to know that is out there. Here's what I would recommend to be a better listener.

One is mirroring. It's very easy. You take the last little bit of somebody's sentence, and then you ask it back to them. So let's say I'm telling you this phrase. Yesterday, I really just didn't feel like somebody was listening to me. It was just a really hard day.

One is mirroring. It's very easy. You take the last little bit of somebody's sentence, and then you ask it back to them. So let's say I'm telling you this phrase. Yesterday, I really just didn't feel like somebody was listening to me. It was just a really hard day.

One is mirroring. It's very easy. You take the last little bit of somebody's sentence, and then you ask it back to them. So let's say I'm telling you this phrase. Yesterday, I really just didn't feel like somebody was listening to me. It was just a really hard day.

you would reply hard day or you had a hard day or sounds like you had a hard day you go yeah no i i did i had a really a really hard day and then we'll keep talking you grab the last little two to three words in somebody's sentence you just repeat it back to them now you don't want to continue to do that because then it'll be almost robotic, like, what's wrong with you?

you would reply hard day or you had a hard day or sounds like you had a hard day you go yeah no i i did i had a really a really hard day and then we'll keep talking you grab the last little two to three words in somebody's sentence you just repeat it back to them now you don't want to continue to do that because then it'll be almost robotic, like, what's wrong with you?

you would reply hard day or you had a hard day or sounds like you had a hard day you go yeah no i i did i had a really a really hard day and then we'll keep talking you grab the last little two to three words in somebody's sentence you just repeat it back to them now you don't want to continue to do that because then it'll be almost robotic, like, what's wrong with you?

You're not engaging in conversation with me. But it's very helpful in getting you to listen. Second thing I like to do with listening is getting very disciplined on the practice of refusing to allow myself to think of a response while they're talking. That's the hardest thing to do, but once you master it, it is actually very peaceful. Let me explain.

You're not engaging in conversation with me. But it's very helpful in getting you to listen. Second thing I like to do with listening is getting very disciplined on the practice of refusing to allow myself to think of a response while they're talking. That's the hardest thing to do, but once you master it, it is actually very peaceful. Let me explain.

You're not engaging in conversation with me. But it's very helpful in getting you to listen. Second thing I like to do with listening is getting very disciplined on the practice of refusing to allow myself to think of a response while they're talking. That's the hardest thing to do, but once you master it, it is actually very peaceful. Let me explain.

If you're saying something to me, David, and the whole time I'm just thinking of my response, I cannot do two things at once. I will shut you out. I'll just shut you out.

If you're saying something to me, David, and the whole time I'm just thinking of my response, I cannot do two things at once. I will shut you out. I'll just shut you out.

If you're saying something to me, David, and the whole time I'm just thinking of my response, I cannot do two things at once. I will shut you out. I'll just shut you out.

You know how that feels when you hear somebody talking and you kind of, it's like listening to them in the water or having head muffs on, ear muffs on, where you can hear it and they're just like this and they're talking, but you're more concerned with what you're about to say and you miss out. on what they're saying. Except my wife says she can do both.

You know how that feels when you hear somebody talking and you kind of, it's like listening to them in the water or having head muffs on, ear muffs on, where you can hear it and they're just like this and they're talking, but you're more concerned with what you're about to say and you miss out. on what they're saying. Except my wife says she can do both.

You know how that feels when you hear somebody talking and you kind of, it's like listening to them in the water or having head muffs on, ear muffs on, where you can hear it and they're just like this and they're talking, but you're more concerned with what you're about to say and you miss out. on what they're saying. Except my wife says she can do both.