Jemma Sbeg
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And I actually think that's a really good sign. It's really important to reevaluate at certain points in your relationship what
And I actually think that's a really good sign. It's really important to reevaluate at certain points in your relationship what
And I actually think that's a really good sign. It's really important to reevaluate at certain points in your relationship what
that this is working that you actually want to be there that you're not just like passively engaging in the relationship because it's the path of least resistance because you know you've just gotten used to them I really think that you can still have arguments in healthy compatible relationships you can still feel misunderstood you still will have to compromise or disagree and it doesn't mean that they are not right for you
that this is working that you actually want to be there that you're not just like passively engaging in the relationship because it's the path of least resistance because you know you've just gotten used to them I really think that you can still have arguments in healthy compatible relationships you can still feel misunderstood you still will have to compromise or disagree and it doesn't mean that they are not right for you
that this is working that you actually want to be there that you're not just like passively engaging in the relationship because it's the path of least resistance because you know you've just gotten used to them I really think that you can still have arguments in healthy compatible relationships you can still feel misunderstood you still will have to compromise or disagree and it doesn't mean that they are not right for you
But that cannot be the core experience of being in a relationship with someone. It cannot be constant fights, constant misunderstandings, the same fights which give such a beautiful sense of relief when they're done that you confuse it with love. It cannot be feeling cold in the relationship or a sense of relief when you're not together.
But that cannot be the core experience of being in a relationship with someone. It cannot be constant fights, constant misunderstandings, the same fights which give such a beautiful sense of relief when they're done that you confuse it with love. It cannot be feeling cold in the relationship or a sense of relief when you're not together.
But that cannot be the core experience of being in a relationship with someone. It cannot be constant fights, constant misunderstandings, the same fights which give such a beautiful sense of relief when they're done that you confuse it with love. It cannot be feeling cold in the relationship or a sense of relief when you're not together.
I watched this really amazing interview on YouTube the other day of this woman. Her name is Spirit. I think she just goes by Spirit. And she explains what it feels like to be in an emotionally incompatible friendship or relationship. And the way she describes it is the circle and the square. So I want you to imagine like a big square. You can even jot it down like a big square and
I watched this really amazing interview on YouTube the other day of this woman. Her name is Spirit. I think she just goes by Spirit. And she explains what it feels like to be in an emotionally incompatible friendship or relationship. And the way she describes it is the circle and the square. So I want you to imagine like a big square. You can even jot it down like a big square and
I watched this really amazing interview on YouTube the other day of this woman. Her name is Spirit. I think she just goes by Spirit. And she explains what it feels like to be in an emotionally incompatible friendship or relationship. And the way she describes it is the circle and the square. So I want you to imagine like a big square. You can even jot it down like a big square and
And inside is a circle and the circle touches each side of the square. It feels supported, you know, every side is touched. But there are these gaps where the circle cannot touch the corners of the square because it's obviously not a square. And those gaps between the circles, edges and the corners of the square, those are our unmet needs.
And inside is a circle and the circle touches each side of the square. It feels supported, you know, every side is touched. But there are these gaps where the circle cannot touch the corners of the square because it's obviously not a square. And those gaps between the circles, edges and the corners of the square, those are our unmet needs.
And inside is a circle and the circle touches each side of the square. It feels supported, you know, every side is touched. But there are these gaps where the circle cannot touch the corners of the square because it's obviously not a square. And those gaps between the circles, edges and the corners of the square, those are our unmet needs.
The circle and the square can never feel completely supported while they are with each other because there is all this space that is this communication, all this space in which doubt flows in. You want to be with someone who it feels like you really, really fit and And I will like leave a link to this YouTube video because it's really, really good.
The circle and the square can never feel completely supported while they are with each other because there is all this space that is this communication, all this space in which doubt flows in. You want to be with someone who it feels like you really, really fit and And I will like leave a link to this YouTube video because it's really, really good.
The circle and the square can never feel completely supported while they are with each other because there is all this space that is this communication, all this space in which doubt flows in. You want to be with someone who it feels like you really, really fit and And I will like leave a link to this YouTube video because it's really, really good.
And I feel like it's a very visual way of seeing it. But I think the first time I watched it, I was like, oh, that totally makes sense. Like all of these relationships from my past, I've just been trying to be the circle to the square or like the triangle to the square doesn't work. So let's talk about the five signs now. I've rambled on long enough. Let's talk about what they are.
And I feel like it's a very visual way of seeing it. But I think the first time I watched it, I was like, oh, that totally makes sense. Like all of these relationships from my past, I've just been trying to be the circle to the square or like the triangle to the square doesn't work. So let's talk about the five signs now. I've rambled on long enough. Let's talk about what they are.