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Jemma Sbeg

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
3030 total appearances

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The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

You don't feel like talking to them is going to put you at risk. It doesn't feel like your personalities are creating friction, like they're very, very harmonious. This really brings me to another point, and it's a very crucial ingredient for compatibility. I don't think you can have a fulfilling relationship with someone whose communication style and personality constantly clashes with yours.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

You don't feel like talking to them is going to put you at risk. It doesn't feel like your personalities are creating friction, like they're very, very harmonious. This really brings me to another point, and it's a very crucial ingredient for compatibility. I don't think you can have a fulfilling relationship with someone whose communication style and personality constantly clashes with yours.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

You don't feel like talking to them is going to put you at risk. It doesn't feel like your personalities are creating friction, like they're very, very harmonious. This really brings me to another point, and it's a very crucial ingredient for compatibility. I don't think you can have a fulfilling relationship with someone whose communication style and personality constantly clashes with yours.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

For example, the one-upper, someone who always has to come up with a better story, a better example. That might be great for people who are competitive and want to be challenged. But for the average person, you know, you're probably not going to get along with this person. Same with people who are quite self-centered and arrogant in a conversation.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

For example, the one-upper, someone who always has to come up with a better story, a better example. That might be great for people who are competitive and want to be challenged. But for the average person, you know, you're probably not going to get along with this person. Same with people who are quite self-centered and arrogant in a conversation.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

For example, the one-upper, someone who always has to come up with a better story, a better example. That might be great for people who are competitive and want to be challenged. But for the average person, you know, you're probably not going to get along with this person. Same with people who are quite self-centered and arrogant in a conversation.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

It's pretty hard to feel like you're flowing with someone who is talking about their wealth or their accomplishments all the time or someone who is always looking over your shoulder for someone better to talk to or who gives back. One word answers. I think how someone presents in a conversation is how they enter a relationship.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

It's pretty hard to feel like you're flowing with someone who is talking about their wealth or their accomplishments all the time or someone who is always looking over your shoulder for someone better to talk to or who gives back. One word answers. I think how someone presents in a conversation is how they enter a relationship.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

It's pretty hard to feel like you're flowing with someone who is talking about their wealth or their accomplishments all the time or someone who is always looking over your shoulder for someone better to talk to or who gives back. One word answers. I think how someone presents in a conversation is how they enter a relationship.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

So if they are present, if they connect with you, if they're focused and generous, I think that's a really, really good sign. So this brings me to my third sign. You acknowledge each other's independence, but still value the same things. The most compatible people I know are not identical. They are actually very different and they insist on being their own people. They like each other.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

So if they are present, if they connect with you, if they're focused and generous, I think that's a really, really good sign. So this brings me to my third sign. You acknowledge each other's independence, but still value the same things. The most compatible people I know are not identical. They are actually very different and they insist on being their own people. They like each other.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

So if they are present, if they connect with you, if they're focused and generous, I think that's a really, really good sign. So this brings me to my third sign. You acknowledge each other's independence, but still value the same things. The most compatible people I know are not identical. They are actually very different and they insist on being their own people. They like each other.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

They love each other because each person puts time and energy into themselves. And so the individual things that they have fallen in love with, they don't disappear when they become one, I guess. Also, I think independence shows that both people respect the other person's personhood. That's just like critical, critical, critical, critical.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

They love each other because each person puts time and energy into themselves. And so the individual things that they have fallen in love with, they don't disappear when they become one, I guess. Also, I think independence shows that both people respect the other person's personhood. That's just like critical, critical, critical, critical.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

They love each other because each person puts time and energy into themselves. And so the individual things that they have fallen in love with, they don't disappear when they become one, I guess. Also, I think independence shows that both people respect the other person's personhood. That's just like critical, critical, critical, critical.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

Let's talk about what we need to have in common, though, despite our individual brilliance. So a question I get all the time is, can I be in a relationship with someone who has opposing political differences to me? I especially got this after the US election when people were like, hey, my boyfriend or husband voted for Trump or my girlfriend voted independent. Like, can this still work?

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

Let's talk about what we need to have in common, though, despite our individual brilliance. So a question I get all the time is, can I be in a relationship with someone who has opposing political differences to me? I especially got this after the US election when people were like, hey, my boyfriend or husband voted for Trump or my girlfriend voted independent. Like, can this still work?

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

Let's talk about what we need to have in common, though, despite our individual brilliance. So a question I get all the time is, can I be in a relationship with someone who has opposing political differences to me? I especially got this after the US election when people were like, hey, my boyfriend or husband voted for Trump or my girlfriend voted independent. Like, can this still work?

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

Let's talk about a 2023 study conducted in Italy that will answer that question for us. Not completely answer. Gives us a good insight. So the authors of this paper, they recruited 274 Italian adults to take part in a short online survey. In the survey, they wanted participants to rank first.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

Let's talk about a 2023 study conducted in Italy that will answer that question for us. Not completely answer. Gives us a good insight. So the authors of this paper, they recruited 274 Italian adults to take part in a short online survey. In the survey, they wanted participants to rank first.