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Jemma Sbeg

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
3030 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

I experienced this with my boyfriend and we weren't friends to begin with, but at the time I met him our first day after our first date, I left the date and I was like to my friends, I felt like almost a little bit bored. Like I felt bored almost. And they were like, weren't you on a date for like four, five hours and you went to like three different locations?

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

I experienced this with my boyfriend and we weren't friends to begin with, but at the time I met him our first day after our first date, I left the date and I was like to my friends, I felt like almost a little bit bored. Like I felt bored almost. And they were like, weren't you on a date for like four, five hours and you went to like three different locations?

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

Like you went out for dinner, you went out for a drink, you went out for frozen yogurt. Like you obviously weren't bored if you were still there. And I was like, oh yeah, like you're probably right. And I obviously went on another date with him and it was like wonderful, but it felt like giddy and fun rather than stressful and tense. Like I was not confused by what that feeling was.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

Like you went out for dinner, you went out for a drink, you went out for frozen yogurt. Like you obviously weren't bored if you were still there. And I was like, oh yeah, like you're probably right. And I obviously went on another date with him and it was like wonderful, but it felt like giddy and fun rather than stressful and tense. Like I was not confused by what that feeling was.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

Like you went out for dinner, you went out for a drink, you went out for frozen yogurt. Like you obviously weren't bored if you were still there. And I was like, oh yeah, like you're probably right. And I obviously went on another date with him and it was like wonderful, but it felt like giddy and fun rather than stressful and tense. Like I was not confused by what that feeling was.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

Something that also was very, very apparent with him was like, again, this sense of like, have I known you for a long time? Like, I feel like I've met you before. We even were trying to do this like backtracking math where I was like, I just feel like this is not the first time we have met. And I know for like a scientific psychology podcast, that sounds very woo woo, but I don't know.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

Something that also was very, very apparent with him was like, again, this sense of like, have I known you for a long time? Like, I feel like I've met you before. We even were trying to do this like backtracking math where I was like, I just feel like this is not the first time we have met. And I know for like a scientific psychology podcast, that sounds very woo woo, but I don't know.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

Something that also was very, very apparent with him was like, again, this sense of like, have I known you for a long time? Like, I feel like I've met you before. We even were trying to do this like backtracking math where I was like, I just feel like this is not the first time we have met. And I know for like a scientific psychology podcast, that sounds very woo woo, but I don't know.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

That's just how it really felt. And this really brings me kind of somewhat to my next sign of deep emotional compatibility. And it's probably the most obvious one. It feels like talking takes no effort. We have all had that experience of talking to someone like at a party or at an event, and it genuinely feels like you are pulling out your eyelashes. Like each sentence, each question is a stretch.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

That's just how it really felt. And this really brings me kind of somewhat to my next sign of deep emotional compatibility. And it's probably the most obvious one. It feels like talking takes no effort. We have all had that experience of talking to someone like at a party or at an event, and it genuinely feels like you are pulling out your eyelashes. Like each sentence, each question is a stretch.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

That's just how it really felt. And this really brings me kind of somewhat to my next sign of deep emotional compatibility. And it's probably the most obvious one. It feels like talking takes no effort. We have all had that experience of talking to someone like at a party or at an event, and it genuinely feels like you are pulling out your eyelashes. Like each sentence, each question is a stretch.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

It's a struggle and it's the worst. Like it's awful. But then on the flip side, sometimes you meet these people who you like immediately, like you are on the same frequency, like platonic or romantic. The banter is perfect. There is a lovely balance between serious and emotional, but also jovial and light. And the conversation almost feels like you've entered a flow state.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

It's a struggle and it's the worst. Like it's awful. But then on the flip side, sometimes you meet these people who you like immediately, like you are on the same frequency, like platonic or romantic. The banter is perfect. There is a lovely balance between serious and emotional, but also jovial and light. And the conversation almost feels like you've entered a flow state.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

It's a struggle and it's the worst. Like it's awful. But then on the flip side, sometimes you meet these people who you like immediately, like you are on the same frequency, like platonic or romantic. The banter is perfect. There is a lovely balance between serious and emotional, but also jovial and light. And the conversation almost feels like you've entered a flow state.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

Like you just feel like you don't want to leave. The hours are passing by. You kind of forget to look up. You forget about what's around you. Like you never run out of things to say. This is like I think one of the most magical parts about being human and about falling in love or like finding yourself in a new connection or friendship. Like everything. It's so magical.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

Like you just feel like you don't want to leave. The hours are passing by. You kind of forget to look up. You forget about what's around you. Like you never run out of things to say. This is like I think one of the most magical parts about being human and about falling in love or like finding yourself in a new connection or friendship. Like everything. It's so magical.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

Like you just feel like you don't want to leave. The hours are passing by. You kind of forget to look up. You forget about what's around you. Like you never run out of things to say. This is like I think one of the most magical parts about being human and about falling in love or like finding yourself in a new connection or friendship. Like everything. It's so magical.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

It's just like, wow, you get me. I get you. We're both here on this planet and here we are talking and it just feels so natural. And even if you're quite introverted, I do still think that this can happen even if you're quite shy. I think it just feels like if you share similar values and similar interests, you don't feel judged talking to that person.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

It's just like, wow, you get me. I get you. We're both here on this planet and here we are talking and it just feels so natural. And even if you're quite introverted, I do still think that this can happen even if you're quite shy. I think it just feels like if you share similar values and similar interests, you don't feel judged talking to that person.

The Psychology of your 20s
275. 5 signs of deep emotional compatibility

It's just like, wow, you get me. I get you. We're both here on this planet and here we are talking and it just feels so natural. And even if you're quite introverted, I do still think that this can happen even if you're quite shy. I think it just feels like if you share similar values and similar interests, you don't feel judged talking to that person.