Jemma Sbeg
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So the saying really goes, and I always use this saying to describe birth order theory, just because you are raised in the same house doesn't mean that you had the same childhood as your siblings and your position in the family contributes to this difference in childhoods.
So the saying really goes, and I always use this saying to describe birth order theory, just because you are raised in the same house doesn't mean that you had the same childhood as your siblings and your position in the family contributes to this difference in childhoods.
So the saying really goes, and I always use this saying to describe birth order theory, just because you are raised in the same house doesn't mean that you had the same childhood as your siblings and your position in the family contributes to this difference in childhoods.
Because, you know, for all intents and purposes, two people who go through the same upbringing and are raised in the same house by the same parents, they should turn out pretty similar. And yes, we have to account for nature and our personality and how we're just born and who we are when we kind of come out of the womb. But there is a significant difference in how our parents treat us.
Because, you know, for all intents and purposes, two people who go through the same upbringing and are raised in the same house by the same parents, they should turn out pretty similar. And yes, we have to account for nature and our personality and how we're just born and who we are when we kind of come out of the womb. But there is a significant difference in how our parents treat us.
Because, you know, for all intents and purposes, two people who go through the same upbringing and are raised in the same house by the same parents, they should turn out pretty similar. And yes, we have to account for nature and our personality and how we're just born and who we are when we kind of come out of the womb. But there is a significant difference in how our parents treat us.
So the man who developed birth order theory, he was kind of the first one to say, to notice this. His name was Alfred Adler. You may also know him from the creation of the inferiority complex. Also, he was like a founding father of individual psychology, which if you study psychology, you've probably done like, I don't know, a unit in this.
So the man who developed birth order theory, he was kind of the first one to say, to notice this. His name was Alfred Adler. You may also know him from the creation of the inferiority complex. Also, he was like a founding father of individual psychology, which if you study psychology, you've probably done like, I don't know, a unit in this.
So the man who developed birth order theory, he was kind of the first one to say, to notice this. His name was Alfred Adler. You may also know him from the creation of the inferiority complex. Also, he was like a founding father of individual psychology, which if you study psychology, you've probably done like, I don't know, a unit in this.
Basically, he says that in individual psychology, what we're really looking for is a sense of mastery and a sense of
Basically, he says that in individual psychology, what we're really looking for is a sense of mastery and a sense of
Basically, he says that in individual psychology, what we're really looking for is a sense of mastery and a sense of
completeness that doesn't really matter it's not what we're talking about today but he was really working hard during you know the early and mid 1900s but birth order theory as it stands today is probably what he is most well known for and it basically says that being the oldest youngest middle or only child will affect what characteristics and traits you develop and
completeness that doesn't really matter it's not what we're talking about today but he was really working hard during you know the early and mid 1900s but birth order theory as it stands today is probably what he is most well known for and it basically says that being the oldest youngest middle or only child will affect what characteristics and traits you develop and
completeness that doesn't really matter it's not what we're talking about today but he was really working hard during you know the early and mid 1900s but birth order theory as it stands today is probably what he is most well known for and it basically says that being the oldest youngest middle or only child will affect what characteristics and traits you develop and
Now, let's be really, really clear because I see a lot of like birth order theory TikToks going around and Instagram videos. It is not a medical prescription. Like I cannot diagnose you as an eldest daughter. I cannot diagnose you as a youngest son. Like that's a descriptor.
Now, let's be really, really clear because I see a lot of like birth order theory TikToks going around and Instagram videos. It is not a medical prescription. Like I cannot diagnose you as an eldest daughter. I cannot diagnose you as a youngest son. Like that's a descriptor.
Now, let's be really, really clear because I see a lot of like birth order theory TikToks going around and Instagram videos. It is not a medical prescription. Like I cannot diagnose you as an eldest daughter. I cannot diagnose you as a youngest son. Like that's a descriptor.
It doesn't, you know, if you go to a psychologist, they're not going to like include that on your chart notes as like something that needs an intervention because it's just kind of who you are.
It doesn't, you know, if you go to a psychologist, they're not going to like include that on your chart notes as like something that needs an intervention because it's just kind of who you are.