Jemma Sbeg

It doesn't, you know, if you go to a psychologist, they're not going to like include that on your chart notes as like something that needs an intervention because it's just kind of who you are.

it's definitely like a theory it's a theory and a theory like any theory like has gaps it has exceptions it has flaws um what I kind of see birth order theory is doing is filling the same role as personality tests like they provide like there is research behind them and they provide a structural guide for better understanding of where we sit in relation to others but they are not a full answer to the questions we have about ourselves like

it's definitely like a theory it's a theory and a theory like any theory like has gaps it has exceptions it has flaws um what I kind of see birth order theory is doing is filling the same role as personality tests like they provide like there is research behind them and they provide a structural guide for better understanding of where we sit in relation to others but they are not a full answer to the questions we have about ourselves like

it's definitely like a theory it's a theory and a theory like any theory like has gaps it has exceptions it has flaws um what I kind of see birth order theory is doing is filling the same role as personality tests like they provide like there is research behind them and they provide a structural guide for better understanding of where we sit in relation to others but they are not a full answer to the questions we have about ourselves like

they're really interesting to explore and they're really interesting for reflection but of course anything like that that says you are only the way you are because of this one thing and this one test or this one theory can tell you like it's not accurate we exist in a much larger ecosystem of factors and contexts and situations with that being said let's say what this theory has to say about the unique traits and character of the youngest child

they're really interesting to explore and they're really interesting for reflection but of course anything like that that says you are only the way you are because of this one thing and this one test or this one theory can tell you like it's not accurate we exist in a much larger ecosystem of factors and contexts and situations with that being said let's say what this theory has to say about the unique traits and character of the youngest child

they're really interesting to explore and they're really interesting for reflection but of course anything like that that says you are only the way you are because of this one thing and this one test or this one theory can tell you like it's not accurate we exist in a much larger ecosystem of factors and contexts and situations with that being said let's say what this theory has to say about the unique traits and character of the youngest child

According to this theory, the eldest child is often very responsible, very type A. They kind of take care of everyone else, especially if you're an eldest daughter. You know, that kind of makes sense. They mature the fastest. They're the eldest. They take care of a lot of the younger children. They're set up as a role model. Then we have a middle child.

According to this theory, the eldest child is often very responsible, very type A. They kind of take care of everyone else, especially if you're an eldest daughter. You know, that kind of makes sense. They mature the fastest. They're the eldest. They take care of a lot of the younger children. They're set up as a role model. Then we have a middle child.

According to this theory, the eldest child is often very responsible, very type A. They kind of take care of everyone else, especially if you're an eldest daughter. You know, that kind of makes sense. They mature the fastest. They're the eldest. They take care of a lot of the younger children. They're set up as a role model. Then we have a middle child.

The middle child is seen as the mediator or the peacemaker. They're actually sometimes referred to as the easy or invisible child because of how they are

The middle child is seen as the mediator or the peacemaker. They're actually sometimes referred to as the easy or invisible child because of how they are

The middle child is seen as the mediator or the peacemaker. They're actually sometimes referred to as the easy or invisible child because of how they are

sandwiched between the eldest and the youngest also middle children like sometimes they don't even get to be the only middle child like they have to share that position with someone else and then we have the youngest child the little baby of the family By the time your parents have gotten to their final child, especially if you're in a big family of three plus kids, like let's be so real.

sandwiched between the eldest and the youngest also middle children like sometimes they don't even get to be the only middle child like they have to share that position with someone else and then we have the youngest child the little baby of the family By the time your parents have gotten to their final child, especially if you're in a big family of three plus kids, like let's be so real.

sandwiched between the eldest and the youngest also middle children like sometimes they don't even get to be the only middle child like they have to share that position with someone else and then we have the youngest child the little baby of the family By the time your parents have gotten to their final child, especially if you're in a big family of three plus kids, like let's be so real.

They are tired. They are tired. All of the discipline that they had for their eldest or older children, all the rules that they promised to implement, all their energy has kind of dissipated because parenting is really, really hard. It reminds me of this interview I saw the other day with Billie Eilish's mom, really random.

They are tired. They are tired. All of the discipline that they had for their eldest or older children, all the rules that they promised to implement, all their energy has kind of dissipated because parenting is really, really hard. It reminds me of this interview I saw the other day with Billie Eilish's mom, really random.

They are tired. They are tired. All of the discipline that they had for their eldest or older children, all the rules that they promised to implement, all their energy has kind of dissipated because parenting is really, really hard. It reminds me of this interview I saw the other day with Billie Eilish's mom, really random.

And she talked about how being a parent, especially being a mother, requires you to use every single creative skill, every single life skill you have ever developed. Like anything you would put on a resume and more goes into being a parent. And it's right. Like she's totally right. It's a full time, full soul, full body effort. And imagine giving 100% to your job for 18 years straight.