Jemma Sbeg

You know, I know this sounds bizarre, but when I went through that really terrible period, I remember saying to myself, I just don't think my soulmate would fall in love with me right now because I have no love for myself and because I'm not... I wouldn't... I wouldn't be in this situation ready to see them for who they are.

You know, I know this sounds bizarre, but when I went through that really terrible period, I remember saying to myself, I just don't think my soulmate would fall in love with me right now because I have no love for myself and because I'm not... I wouldn't... I wouldn't be in this situation ready to see them for who they are.

Anyone could give me the smallest amount of interest and I would confuse them as a soulmate. So I'm not actually able to delineate or tell. And most importantly, they could show me all the love in the world. And at some level, I would crave it. But at another level, I would think I didn't deserve it. So seriously, the focus has to be on you.

Anyone could give me the smallest amount of interest and I would confuse them as a soulmate. So I'm not actually able to delineate or tell. And most importantly, they could show me all the love in the world. And at some level, I would crave it. But at another level, I would think I didn't deserve it. So seriously, the focus has to be on you.

Anyone could give me the smallest amount of interest and I would confuse them as a soulmate. So I'm not actually able to delineate or tell. And most importantly, they could show me all the love in the world. And at some level, I would crave it. But at another level, I would think I didn't deserve it. So seriously, the focus has to be on you.

At every single stage until this person proves themselves to be a partner. You will find so much more success in dating when you make it a completely selfish activity. When you focus on yourself and when you realize, once again, you already have everything you need in life. This is just a bonus.

At every single stage until this person proves themselves to be a partner. You will find so much more success in dating when you make it a completely selfish activity. When you focus on yourself and when you realize, once again, you already have everything you need in life. This is just a bonus.

At every single stage until this person proves themselves to be a partner. You will find so much more success in dating when you make it a completely selfish activity. When you focus on yourself and when you realize, once again, you already have everything you need in life. This is just a bonus.

All right, we're going to take another little short break before we come back with our listener questions and our listener dilemmas around reclaiming power in dating. So stay with us.

All right, we're going to take another little short break before we come back with our listener questions and our listener dilemmas around reclaiming power in dating. So stay with us.

All right, we're going to take another little short break before we come back with our listener questions and our listener dilemmas around reclaiming power in dating. So stay with us.

So question one from a listener, I get attached way too quickly, but I like that I love people deeply. How do I balance those? I want to firstly say I actually don't think that it's a bad thing to get attached too quickly. I know it can like feel kind of painful for us. But if the reason you don't like that you get attached too quickly is because you're

So question one from a listener, I get attached way too quickly, but I like that I love people deeply. How do I balance those? I want to firstly say I actually don't think that it's a bad thing to get attached too quickly. I know it can like feel kind of painful for us. But if the reason you don't like that you get attached too quickly is because you're

So question one from a listener, I get attached way too quickly, but I like that I love people deeply. How do I balance those? I want to firstly say I actually don't think that it's a bad thing to get attached too quickly. I know it can like feel kind of painful for us. But if the reason you don't like that you get attached too quickly is because you're

Other people shame you for it or because you feel like people get scared off. I don't think they're the one. I don't think that they're the one if you put everything on the table and they go, oh, that's awkward. So the shame around getting attached too quickly, I'll never understand. What I do understand is the difficulty that comes with that.

Other people shame you for it or because you feel like people get scared off. I don't think they're the one. I don't think that they're the one if you put everything on the table and they go, oh, that's awkward. So the shame around getting attached too quickly, I'll never understand. What I do understand is the difficulty that comes with that.

Other people shame you for it or because you feel like people get scared off. I don't think they're the one. I don't think that they're the one if you put everything on the table and they go, oh, that's awkward. So the shame around getting attached too quickly, I'll never understand. What I do understand is the difficulty that comes with that.

seeing people for their potential and not for what they're actually going to give you or for their actions or for who they are. So I would say for the first month, if you get attached too quickly, just roll back the emotional investment. So You're not completely cutting them off. I've often had this problem in the past where I know I can get attached really, really quickly.

seeing people for their potential and not for what they're actually going to give you or for their actions or for who they are. So I would say for the first month, if you get attached too quickly, just roll back the emotional investment. So You're not completely cutting them off. I've often had this problem in the past where I know I can get attached really, really quickly.

seeing people for their potential and not for what they're actually going to give you or for their actions or for who they are. So I would say for the first month, if you get attached too quickly, just roll back the emotional investment. So You're not completely cutting them off. I've often had this problem in the past where I know I can get attached really, really quickly.