Jemma Sbeg
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So finding that balance between being able to appreciate solitude and isolation in a sense, but also not tip too far over the edge, really important. The other way to strengthen your intuition is to be patient.
So finding that balance between being able to appreciate solitude and isolation in a sense, but also not tip too far over the edge, really important. The other way to strengthen your intuition is to be patient.
don't always look for a sign don't rush it rushing is an anxious game that is anxiety's favorite game to play and it will have you looking for signs where there aren't any leading you to read too much into small things leading you to make the wrong decisions Basically what I'm trying to say is don't feel like you need to change everything at once and that every discomfort is a problem.
don't always look for a sign don't rush it rushing is an anxious game that is anxiety's favorite game to play and it will have you looking for signs where there aren't any leading you to read too much into small things leading you to make the wrong decisions Basically what I'm trying to say is don't feel like you need to change everything at once and that every discomfort is a problem.
don't always look for a sign don't rush it rushing is an anxious game that is anxiety's favorite game to play and it will have you looking for signs where there aren't any leading you to read too much into small things leading you to make the wrong decisions Basically what I'm trying to say is don't feel like you need to change everything at once and that every discomfort is a problem.
Sometimes discomfort, it is growth. It is okay to sit in a period that feels strange and odd for a little while without feeling like it's indicating a problem. Let me give some examples of this. When you are in a new relationship, especially if you're in a new relationship where you've previously been in an unhealthy one, sometimes that's going to feel a little bit painful.
Sometimes discomfort, it is growth. It is okay to sit in a period that feels strange and odd for a little while without feeling like it's indicating a problem. Let me give some examples of this. When you are in a new relationship, especially if you're in a new relationship where you've previously been in an unhealthy one, sometimes that's going to feel a little bit painful.
Sometimes discomfort, it is growth. It is okay to sit in a period that feels strange and odd for a little while without feeling like it's indicating a problem. Let me give some examples of this. When you are in a new relationship, especially if you're in a new relationship where you've previously been in an unhealthy one, sometimes that's going to feel a little bit painful.
There are these growing pains in a relationship. It doesn't mean that you should trust that discomfort solely. Another example is in a new job. You know, I always say the first three months of a new job are really, really hard. Doesn't mean it's the wrong decision. What about like moving to a new city? That's another one. You're going to feel uncomfortable when you move to a new city.
There are these growing pains in a relationship. It doesn't mean that you should trust that discomfort solely. Another example is in a new job. You know, I always say the first three months of a new job are really, really hard. Doesn't mean it's the wrong decision. What about like moving to a new city? That's another one. You're going to feel uncomfortable when you move to a new city.
There are these growing pains in a relationship. It doesn't mean that you should trust that discomfort solely. Another example is in a new job. You know, I always say the first three months of a new job are really, really hard. Doesn't mean it's the wrong decision. What about like moving to a new city? That's another one. You're going to feel uncomfortable when you move to a new city.
That discomfort does not mean that you necessarily have made the wrong decision. My rule is always the six month rule. If it's three months for a job, it's six months for a new city. If you still hate it at six months, then you can say, oh, maybe I didn't trust my gut instinct.
That discomfort does not mean that you necessarily have made the wrong decision. My rule is always the six month rule. If it's three months for a job, it's six months for a new city. If you still hate it at six months, then you can say, oh, maybe I didn't trust my gut instinct.
That discomfort does not mean that you necessarily have made the wrong decision. My rule is always the six month rule. If it's three months for a job, it's six months for a new city. If you still hate it at six months, then you can say, oh, maybe I didn't trust my gut instinct.
But yeah, I just think that be patient with choices that you make just because they aren't working out right now doesn't mean that you were wrong. I would also say in the opposite direction, notice patterns in past decisions. So reflect on times when you made the wrong decision. You can arguably say, dang, I really made a wrong decision.
But yeah, I just think that be patient with choices that you make just because they aren't working out right now doesn't mean that you were wrong. I would also say in the opposite direction, notice patterns in past decisions. So reflect on times when you made the wrong decision. You can arguably say, dang, I really made a wrong decision.
But yeah, I just think that be patient with choices that you make just because they aren't working out right now doesn't mean that you were wrong. I would also say in the opposite direction, notice patterns in past decisions. So reflect on times when you made the wrong decision. You can arguably say, dang, I really made a wrong decision.
Right before you made that decision in the weeks, days, minutes before you made that decision, was there another decision calling you that you ignored? That was probably your gut instinct. That was probably your intuition. Remember that feeling, remember it and apply it to the situations you're in now. Do you feel something similar at the moment? And try some trial and error.
Right before you made that decision in the weeks, days, minutes before you made that decision, was there another decision calling you that you ignored? That was probably your gut instinct. That was probably your intuition. Remember that feeling, remember it and apply it to the situations you're in now. Do you feel something similar at the moment? And try some trial and error.
Right before you made that decision in the weeks, days, minutes before you made that decision, was there another decision calling you that you ignored? That was probably your gut instinct. That was probably your intuition. Remember that feeling, remember it and apply it to the situations you're in now. Do you feel something similar at the moment? And try some trial and error.