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Jemma Sbeg

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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The Psychology of your 20s
279. The psychology of career jealousy

Honestly, I think the career jealousy between siblings is a lot more common than you may think, because there is, of course, innate familial comparison. There's also all these family archetypes that we tend to fall into, right? The golden child, the black sheep, the underachiever, the overachiever.

The Psychology of your 20s
279. The psychology of career jealousy

Honestly, I think the career jealousy between siblings is a lot more common than you may think, because there is, of course, innate familial comparison. There's also all these family archetypes that we tend to fall into, right? The golden child, the black sheep, the underachiever, the overachiever.

The Psychology of your 20s
279. The psychology of career jealousy

And they really contribute to the sense of needing to prove yourself, particularly in comparison to a sibling. Now, we also talked about how we compare ourselves to people who are most or more similar to us, specifically friends. Well, let's talk about siblings for a second. Like you share some of the very same genes. You often share parents. You share a childhood environment.

The Psychology of your 20s
279. The psychology of career jealousy

And they really contribute to the sense of needing to prove yourself, particularly in comparison to a sibling. Now, we also talked about how we compare ourselves to people who are most or more similar to us, specifically friends. Well, let's talk about siblings for a second. Like you share some of the very same genes. You often share parents. You share a childhood environment.

The Psychology of your 20s
279. The psychology of career jealousy

And they really contribute to the sense of needing to prove yourself, particularly in comparison to a sibling. Now, we also talked about how we compare ourselves to people who are most or more similar to us, specifically friends. Well, let's talk about siblings for a second. Like you share some of the very same genes. You often share parents. You share a childhood environment.

The Psychology of your 20s
279. The psychology of career jealousy

So there's all those differences between you do feel particularly pronounced. Also, you know, I've seen so many situations where parents often, you know, it's terrible to say, but they do favor one child and they do really focus on their success. You see it a lot with child actors, actually child actresses or actors who their parents put so much into them.

The Psychology of your 20s
279. The psychology of career jealousy

So there's all those differences between you do feel particularly pronounced. Also, you know, I've seen so many situations where parents often, you know, it's terrible to say, but they do favor one child and they do really focus on their success. You see it a lot with child actors, actually child actresses or actors who their parents put so much into them.

The Psychology of your 20s
279. The psychology of career jealousy

So there's all those differences between you do feel particularly pronounced. Also, you know, I've seen so many situations where parents often, you know, it's terrible to say, but they do favor one child and they do really focus on their success. You see it a lot with child actors, actually child actresses or actors who their parents put so much into them.

The Psychology of your 20s
279. The psychology of career jealousy

And then the other children are kind of like, okay, well, What about me? Just because my goals and my dreams are different and my success looks different based on the industry that we're in doesn't mean it's any less important.

The Psychology of your 20s
279. The psychology of career jealousy

And then the other children are kind of like, okay, well, What about me? Just because my goals and my dreams are different and my success looks different based on the industry that we're in doesn't mean it's any less important.

The Psychology of your 20s
279. The psychology of career jealousy

And then the other children are kind of like, okay, well, What about me? Just because my goals and my dreams are different and my success looks different based on the industry that we're in doesn't mean it's any less important.

The Psychology of your 20s
279. The psychology of career jealousy

So I think those are the circumstances that we're kind of dealing with here, innate competition and families, archetypes that we tend to fall into or roles we fall into here. What I really want you to do is realize that a win for them is your win as well. No matter how much you have been conditioned to see them as competition. Seriously, is that mentality hurting or helping your relationship?

The Psychology of your 20s
279. The psychology of career jealousy

So I think those are the circumstances that we're kind of dealing with here, innate competition and families, archetypes that we tend to fall into or roles we fall into here. What I really want you to do is realize that a win for them is your win as well. No matter how much you have been conditioned to see them as competition. Seriously, is that mentality hurting or helping your relationship?

The Psychology of your 20s
279. The psychology of career jealousy

So I think those are the circumstances that we're kind of dealing with here, innate competition and families, archetypes that we tend to fall into or roles we fall into here. What I really want you to do is realize that a win for them is your win as well. No matter how much you have been conditioned to see them as competition. Seriously, is that mentality hurting or helping your relationship?

The Psychology of your 20s
279. The psychology of career jealousy

Sibling relationships are, oh my God, so underrated. So underrated. They are so important. They are so special. They are the people who will hopefully be with you for so much of your life. And if you have been raised to be in competition, I think it does get to a point where you have to seriously look at each other and say...

The Psychology of your 20s
279. The psychology of career jealousy

Sibling relationships are, oh my God, so underrated. So underrated. They are so important. They are so special. They are the people who will hopefully be with you for so much of your life. And if you have been raised to be in competition, I think it does get to a point where you have to seriously look at each other and say...

The Psychology of your 20s
279. The psychology of career jealousy

Sibling relationships are, oh my God, so underrated. So underrated. They are so important. They are so special. They are the people who will hopefully be with you for so much of your life. And if you have been raised to be in competition, I think it does get to a point where you have to seriously look at each other and say...

The Psychology of your 20s
279. The psychology of career jealousy

I don't want to be have this relationship with you anymore like this is not helping us so fight back against that natural instinct take interest in their life invest mentally invest your curiosity in their life and also talk about it with them you know if you can't talk about your insecurities with your sibling who are you going to talk about it with

The Psychology of your 20s
279. The psychology of career jealousy

I don't want to be have this relationship with you anymore like this is not helping us so fight back against that natural instinct take interest in their life invest mentally invest your curiosity in their life and also talk about it with them you know if you can't talk about your insecurities with your sibling who are you going to talk about it with

The Psychology of your 20s
279. The psychology of career jealousy

I don't want to be have this relationship with you anymore like this is not helping us so fight back against that natural instinct take interest in their life invest mentally invest your curiosity in their life and also talk about it with them you know if you can't talk about your insecurities with your sibling who are you going to talk about it with