Jemma Sbeg

See, I'm leaning more... It's nuanced. I know. It's so nuanced.

That's what I'm thinking.

That's what I'm thinking.

That's what I'm thinking.

Yeah, you live together, I'm assuming. So, and you know, I do think he was trying to be helpful. But the thing is, it's like, you're also allowed to have your emotional reaction, even if like the intentions were pure. And I think that like, she's showing some level of maturity by acknowledging that and being like, okay, I know that I know that personally, I am someone who has to

Yeah, you live together, I'm assuming. So, and you know, I do think he was trying to be helpful. But the thing is, it's like, you're also allowed to have your emotional reaction, even if like the intentions were pure. And I think that like, she's showing some level of maturity by acknowledging that and being like, okay, I know that I know that personally, I am someone who has to

Yeah, you live together, I'm assuming. So, and you know, I do think he was trying to be helpful. But the thing is, it's like, you're also allowed to have your emotional reaction, even if like the intentions were pure. And I think that like, she's showing some level of maturity by acknowledging that and being like, okay, I know that I know that personally, I am someone who has to

who feels their emotions really deeply. I know he didn't mean it. Like she's using very good eye language, you know, very good. The therapist would say that's great. But then there's like the extreme of being like, and I ripped it up.

who feels their emotions really deeply. I know he didn't mean it. Like she's using very good eye language, you know, very good. The therapist would say that's great. But then there's like the extreme of being like, and I ripped it up.

who feels their emotions really deeply. I know he didn't mean it. Like she's using very good eye language, you know, very good. The therapist would say that's great. But then there's like the extreme of being like, and I ripped it up.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I'm like you were you still feel like you were trying to send a message in the way you were processing through it it's also this thing of like okay you ruined my piece of paint my you ruined my piece of art so I'm gonna ruin it even more but that's only hurting you yeah like he obviously doesn't have the same appreciation for it as you do but you're you're the one who now no longer even gets to enjoy even the slither no language of the art then you've also like made him feel bad and now like

I'm like you were you still feel like you were trying to send a message in the way you were processing through it it's also this thing of like okay you ruined my piece of paint my you ruined my piece of art so I'm gonna ruin it even more but that's only hurting you yeah like he obviously doesn't have the same appreciation for it as you do but you're you're the one who now no longer even gets to enjoy even the slither no language of the art then you've also like made him feel bad and now like

I'm like you were you still feel like you were trying to send a message in the way you were processing through it it's also this thing of like okay you ruined my piece of paint my you ruined my piece of art so I'm gonna ruin it even more but that's only hurting you yeah like he obviously doesn't have the same appreciation for it as you do but you're you're the one who now no longer even gets to enjoy even the slither no language of the art then you've also like made him feel bad and now like

Now the environment that you're in doesn't is like toxic. Nobody's winning here. Cold. Nobody's winning. Nobody is winning. No. So I'm like, that is one of those things where it's like you kind of have to either. I know it sounds so simple, but there's so many like situations in a relationship where you just have to let things go. I know.

Now the environment that you're in doesn't is like toxic. Nobody's winning here. Cold. Nobody's winning. Nobody is winning. No. So I'm like, that is one of those things where it's like you kind of have to either. I know it sounds so simple, but there's so many like situations in a relationship where you just have to let things go. I know.

Now the environment that you're in doesn't is like toxic. Nobody's winning here. Cold. Nobody's winning. Nobody is winning. No. So I'm like, that is one of those things where it's like you kind of have to either. I know it sounds so simple, but there's so many like situations in a relationship where you just have to let things go. I know.

And I saw this like photo of this old couple the other day on TikTok with like the caption of how many times do they have to forgive each other to get to this point? And I'm like, I know I'm doing really deep with this, but that's what I think about in those instances where it's like, yes, a mistake was made, however much intentional, unintentional or ignorant.