Jemma Sbeg

And I saw this like photo of this old couple the other day on TikTok with like the caption of how many times do they have to forgive each other to get to this point? And I'm like, I know I'm doing really deep with this, but that's what I think about in those instances where it's like, yes, a mistake was made, however much intentional, unintentional or ignorant.

And I saw this like photo of this old couple the other day on TikTok with like the caption of how many times do they have to forgive each other to get to this point? And I'm like, I know I'm doing really deep with this, but that's what I think about in those instances where it's like, yes, a mistake was made, however much intentional, unintentional or ignorant.

But then you've heightened this whole emotional situation so that now you both feel terrible. Yeah. Yeah. But wouldn't you be happier if you just forgave and then had a serious conversation and were like, this is going to be the consequence next time? Because the only consequence is like for her. She feels shit and she's never up.

But then you've heightened this whole emotional situation so that now you both feel terrible. Yeah. Yeah. But wouldn't you be happier if you just forgave and then had a serious conversation and were like, this is going to be the consequence next time? Because the only consequence is like for her. She feels shit and she's never up.

But then you've heightened this whole emotional situation so that now you both feel terrible. Yeah. Yeah. But wouldn't you be happier if you just forgave and then had a serious conversation and were like, this is going to be the consequence next time? Because the only consequence is like for her. She feels shit and she's never up.

What if that art was, like, $500? Yeah. It's a little watercolor that you have in a drawer in an envelope. Unless it was literally the Mona Lisa. Or like a Picasso. A little watercolor.

What if that art was, like, $500? Yeah. It's a little watercolor that you have in a drawer in an envelope. Unless it was literally the Mona Lisa. Or like a Picasso. A little watercolor.

What if that art was, like, $500? Yeah. It's a little watercolor that you have in a drawer in an envelope. Unless it was literally the Mona Lisa. Or like a Picasso. A little watercolor.

Oh, yeah. Dang. I kind of thought it was a print, but you're right.

Oh, yeah. Dang. I kind of thought it was a print, but you're right.

Oh, yeah. Dang. I kind of thought it was a print, but you're right.

It's like, it's not a nice thing if you're only doing it because you want to appear nice. You know what I mean? Like, I just think that's the case. It's like you do a favor for someone and they're like, well, I didn't want you to do that. And then you suddenly, it feels quite manipulative when you turn on and you're like, well, I did this nice thing. And it's like, well, I didn't want you to do it.

It's like, it's not a nice thing if you're only doing it because you want to appear nice. You know what I mean? Like, I just think that's the case. It's like you do a favor for someone and they're like, well, I didn't want you to do that. And then you suddenly, it feels quite manipulative when you turn on and you're like, well, I did this nice thing. And it's like, well, I didn't want you to do it.

It's like, it's not a nice thing if you're only doing it because you want to appear nice. You know what I mean? Like, I just think that's the case. It's like you do a favor for someone and they're like, well, I didn't want you to do that. And then you suddenly, it feels quite manipulative when you turn on and you're like, well, I did this nice thing. And it's like, well, I didn't want you to do it.

Like, I didn't ask for it. Yeah. It's like you did it to make yourself feel like a good person, but And now I have to be like suppressing my own feelings to make you feel like a good person, whereas I'm actually unhappy. So you're just feeling nice even though no one's happy.

Like, I didn't ask for it. Yeah. It's like you did it to make yourself feel like a good person, but And now I have to be like suppressing my own feelings to make you feel like a good person, whereas I'm actually unhappy. So you're just feeling nice even though no one's happy.

Like, I didn't ask for it. Yeah. It's like you did it to make yourself feel like a good person, but And now I have to be like suppressing my own feelings to make you feel like a good person, whereas I'm actually unhappy. So you're just feeling nice even though no one's happy.

It's like that episode of Friends. I'm scared. Phoebe, I'm scared. Time is passing. What is humanity? Yeah. What episode of Friends? Where Phoebe has the same dilemma and like allows herself to be stung by a bee.

It's like that episode of Friends. I'm scared. Phoebe, I'm scared. Time is passing. What is humanity? Yeah. What episode of Friends? Where Phoebe has the same dilemma and like allows herself to be stung by a bee.

It's like that episode of Friends. I'm scared. Phoebe, I'm scared. Time is passing. What is humanity? Yeah. What episode of Friends? Where Phoebe has the same dilemma and like allows herself to be stung by a bee.