Jen Cohen

water finds its level.

So you're going to meet people or find people who gravitate to you, who also appreciate honesty, who also want the sheet to be taken off.

So I'm a big believer that not everyone's for everybody.

People will find what they gravitate to.

So

Yeah, so you're not going to be appealing to the people who find that they want to live in La La Land.

Great, you know?

But for people who, like, appreciate bold bluntness all day, you know?

That's a problem.

I mean, but that's what they should be working on, in my opinion.

Yeah.

But you said something earlier that I think is very valuable for people to know and listen to, is that when you're so focused solely on your physical appearance, that comes and goes.

So that's the first issue, right?

You have to build your... I find sometimes the most sexy, beautiful people are not necessarily the most physically beautiful, but it's their attitude, it's their confidence, it's the way they carry themselves and hold themselves.

That makes all the difference, right?

You could have the most beautiful 10 out of 10 woman in front of me or man or whatever.

But if they are insecure and have a low self-esteem and uncomfortable in their own skin, that 10 becomes a 2 really quickly.

Is that similar?

Let's talk, because that's a good segue into one of the things that you talk about in the book as one of the red flags in an area, which, by the way, there's like so much stuff in the book that I want to talk about and then stuff out of the book.

I have to, I think what I'm going to do actually is use my phone with the questions because it's easier for me to look at.