Jenny

Sure.

And I don't want to put words in your mouth, but did I read in there that it's like, you know, all the duties that come along with the bridesmaid, with the bridal shower and the bachelorette party and all the things, and you don't necessarily have or want to invest the time with, you know, respectfully somebody you don't know that well.

Did I get that right?

Sure.

So the big question is you're looking for advice like how do you say no because you think they're going to maybe ask you this weekend because today's Friday and you think that they're maybe going to ask you this weekend because you're going to see them and you're like, eek, I don't want to hurt anybody or look mean, but I don't really want to.

That's kind of the question, right?

But you might be a little bit of a space filler too.

No, I totally get that.

I don't want to cut you short, but we have to move to a break here.

But what I'm going to do is that you can keep your radio on and find out what people say.

Because I'm going to guess that somewhere...

somebody is listening who's had to say no for the same reason or a bride who's asked and they said no and they said no in the right way or the wrong way so becca keep your radio on we'll have some answers for you okay all right thank you yeah yeah yeah happy halloween good luck i don't know why i'm whispering i don't know either i don't want her friends to hear well we've already gotten some text messages so we can come back to those at the other side a lot of ideas love to hear what you think

A little special treat for you.

We actually put on our Halloween costumes from last night.

So you can see them on YouTube, Dave Ryan TV, if you want to go check those out.

They're not actually full costumes because I don't have my makeup on.

I was Jenny.

Yeah.

And Bailey is wearing her hat, but no green makeup.

The funny part is you look a little bit like Inspector Gadget because you are wearing your hat on top of your headphones.