Jenny

That's why we put her on right away instead of waiting until group therapy on Tuesday.

What should she do?

If you've been declined by a potential bridesmaid, is there a polite way to do it?

If you've declined to be a bridesmaid,

is that, what did, how was the reaction?

What do you think she should say?

And we got a ton of text messages, but first, we got a bunch of phone calls, or at least one phone call, so let's see if we can talk to John.

A little bit different perspective, John, tell me your story, what happened?

What did you end up doing?

Did you actually end up being a groomsman or did you not?

And he took it okay.

I think sometimes there, I think it happens with men more than women.

Sometimes there are guys that just don't have enough friends.

She's got six friends.

He needs to round out that side of the ceremony.

So he'll like be like, I don't know if I got six friends.

Yeah.

And so they sometimes add, but then you see the wonderful weddings where the guy has got like

Ten groomsmen up there and they've known each other since third grade and they played football together and it's like so cool.

And then there's other ones that just don't work out.