Jenny

Really interesting question.

And I'm going to sum it up for you.

Basically, she knows her husband's friend is getting married.

They don't know his fiancée very well, but she's very nice.

They've known each other for about a year, and they've had conversations, Becca and the woman, the bride, and it's like, you know, it's an okay conversation, but, you know, one of those where you're not really hitting it off and you make polite conversation and you struggle for something to say.

And so she thinks that they are going to ask her to be one of the bridesmaids.

And she doesn't want to.

And the simple reason is she just doesn't know this woman very well.

And she's worried that if she does the festivities and the bachelorette party and the bridal shower that she won't know anybody.

And she'll sit in the corner and she just doesn't want to.

Nobody likes that.

So she thinks they're going to ask her this weekend.

That's why we put her on right away instead of waiting until group therapy on Tuesday.

What should she do?

If you've been declined by a potential bridesmaid, is there a polite way to do it?

If you've declined to be a bridesmaid,

is that, what did, how was the reaction?

What do you think she should say?

And we got a ton of text messages, but first, we got a bunch of phone calls, or at least one phone call, so let's see if we can talk to John.

A little bit different perspective, John, tell me your story, what happened?