Jessamin

There's a difference between sharing your interests and just going on a full-on rant or... going like off the rails. So like being like bitter or negative about something. So like I put on my profile pretty clearly, I hate hiking.

There's a difference between sharing your interests and just going on a full-on rant or... going like off the rails. So like being like bitter or negative about something. So like I put on my profile pretty clearly, I hate hiking.

Exactly. It was kind of something that I put out there. And you could have said like, oh, I love hiking. Like, well, maybe, you know, I can take, like you could have, if you did like hiking, you could have like spun it and it could have like generated conversation. We connected on like hating hiking, whatever.

Exactly. It was kind of something that I put out there. And you could have said like, oh, I love hiking. Like, well, maybe, you know, I can take, like you could have, if you did like hiking, you could have like spun it and it could have like generated conversation. We connected on like hating hiking, whatever.

Exactly. It was kind of something that I put out there. And you could have said like, oh, I love hiking. Like, well, maybe, you know, I can take, like you could have, if you did like hiking, you could have like spun it and it could have like generated conversation. We connected on like hating hiking, whatever.

Right. Two very different things. But that's different than me saying, like going on a rant about hiking and nature and how terrible it is. Um, or, you know, you don't like mushrooms. You can say like, fun fact, I hate mushrooms. That's something good for me to know.

Right. Two very different things. But that's different than me saying, like going on a rant about hiking and nature and how terrible it is. Um, or, you know, you don't like mushrooms. You can say like, fun fact, I hate mushrooms. That's something good for me to know.

Right. Two very different things. But that's different than me saying, like going on a rant about hiking and nature and how terrible it is. Um, or, you know, you don't like mushrooms. You can say like, fun fact, I hate mushrooms. That's something good for me to know.

I generate some discourse because I do like mushrooms. But for you to then go on a rant about vegetables in general and to go down a hole of vegetables are stupid. Like there's a difference between little things like that and just like turning the conversation into this negative.

I generate some discourse because I do like mushrooms. But for you to then go on a rant about vegetables in general and to go down a hole of vegetables are stupid. Like there's a difference between little things like that and just like turning the conversation into this negative.

I generate some discourse because I do like mushrooms. But for you to then go on a rant about vegetables in general and to go down a hole of vegetables are stupid. Like there's a difference between little things like that and just like turning the conversation into this negative.

You know, speech.

You know, speech.

You know, speech.

Right. Make it, you know, if it's something interesting, that's one thing. If it's just like a vendetta that you have against vegetables and fungi, that's, you know, that's something we get to on like the fifth or sixth date if we're feeling like we're at that place.

Right. Make it, you know, if it's something interesting, that's one thing. If it's just like a vendetta that you have against vegetables and fungi, that's, you know, that's something we get to on like the fifth or sixth date if we're feeling like we're at that place.

Right. Make it, you know, if it's something interesting, that's one thing. If it's just like a vendetta that you have against vegetables and fungi, that's, you know, that's something we get to on like the fifth or sixth date if we're feeling like we're at that place.

For sure.

For sure.

For sure.