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But I think there have been a couple of times where, like, a guy has said, like, I'm going to kiss you now. And I feel like out of context it sounds super weird, but it definitely works. It's the moments, right, if you have that same kind of will in the conversation. Yeah. You can also ask, too. Consent is sexy. You can always ask.
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Yeah, there's that antiquated like three days rule kind of thing. Wait three days before you call her or text her or whatever. And that's just all that does is cause anxiety for both people. There's no reason to wait. There's no reason to play hard to get, especially after you've just met this person for the first time.
Yeah, there's that antiquated like three days rule kind of thing. Wait three days before you call her or text her or whatever. And that's just all that does is cause anxiety for both people. There's no reason to wait. There's no reason to play hard to get, especially after you've just met this person for the first time.
Yeah, there's that antiquated like three days rule kind of thing. Wait three days before you call her or text her or whatever. And that's just all that does is cause anxiety for both people. There's no reason to wait. There's no reason to play hard to get, especially after you've just met this person for the first time.
I think doing it at the end of the day, like you say, like, hey, I had a great time. I'd like to see you again. If she says, no, I'm not feeling it, then everything's set right there. Like, there's no question. You're not, there's no uncertainty. You know, you just move on with your life. But you also don't have to do it right away.
I think doing it at the end of the day, like you say, like, hey, I had a great time. I'd like to see you again. If she says, no, I'm not feeling it, then everything's set right there. Like, there's no question. You're not, there's no uncertainty. You know, you just move on with your life. But you also don't have to do it right away.
I think doing it at the end of the day, like you say, like, hey, I had a great time. I'd like to see you again. If she says, no, I'm not feeling it, then everything's set right there. Like, there's no question. You're not, there's no uncertainty. You know, you just move on with your life. But you also don't have to do it right away.
But I think at the very least, you know, text her the next day, maybe later that night. Just say like, hey, I had a great time. But definitely communicate what you want and what you're interested in because how else is she going to know? Women are very intuitive, but we're not mind readers.
But I think at the very least, you know, text her the next day, maybe later that night. Just say like, hey, I had a great time. But definitely communicate what you want and what you're interested in because how else is she going to know? Women are very intuitive, but we're not mind readers.
But I think at the very least, you know, text her the next day, maybe later that night. Just say like, hey, I had a great time. But definitely communicate what you want and what you're interested in because how else is she going to know? Women are very intuitive, but we're not mind readers.
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What do you got? All right. I mean, I got three don'ts. I have a lot of don'ts, but I think there are some that are more maybe universal than others. I think one of the ones that we've heard time and time again is just don't. Your first date, whatever date it is, it's likely going to be at a bar, at a restaurant, at a coffee shop, whatever. Rule of thumb is don't be a dick to the service staff.
What do you got? All right. I mean, I got three don'ts. I have a lot of don'ts, but I think there are some that are more maybe universal than others. I think one of the ones that we've heard time and time again is just don't. Your first date, whatever date it is, it's likely going to be at a bar, at a restaurant, at a coffee shop, whatever. Rule of thumb is don't be a dick to the service staff.
What do you got? All right. I mean, I got three don'ts. I have a lot of don'ts, but I think there are some that are more maybe universal than others. I think one of the ones that we've heard time and time again is just don't. Your first date, whatever date it is, it's likely going to be at a bar, at a restaurant, at a coffee shop, whatever. Rule of thumb is don't be a dick to the service staff.
Don't be rude to anybody, but it's a very specific thing when you are intentionally rude or dismissive to somebody that's serving your food or serving your drinks or just working.