Jessica Ricci

Hey, she's on the money.

I hope you guys are doing well.

I've got a dilemma I really need your advice on.

Money decisions in my marriage.

Guilty.

Guilty.

See, that resonated with me because like on the flip side, it's not how my relationship works, but I'm like so Taipei, so like my way or the highway sometimes that I'm like, oh, Steve, we want to do this.

And then I'm like, oh, I feel guilty.

I've made that decision without consulting him.

This wasn't a partnership.

Like I need to backtrack and that's why I feel guilty.

So when I heard her say that,

oh, basically my husband's letting me do all this stuff and I feel kind of guilty because whenever I try to get him involved, he doesn't want to be involved.

Yeah, no, I agree.

I don't have a lot to add here because as I said before, I resonate with that.

And historically, what I've done is be like, hey, Steve, I feel like I'm making all the decisions here.

Like, did you have anything to add?

Like, what are you thinking?

And most of the time when it's about stuff like that, he's like,

oh I don't care and I'll be like yeah but surely you care he's like no no no like I think you're making good decisions like I don't need to get involved like I'm across it you should care because it impacts you yeah care more and then I'm annoyed when he does care too much and I'm like