Jessica

I, so the reason that I chose to write it in is because like you said on the podcast a couple of weeks ago that like, you know, when your friends say something like, well, they treat me this way, I'm sorry that they treat you poorly.

Like, I think for me, it's like the way that I would have handled the situation is not necessarily to be like, you know, like I don't at any point expect them to say like, Jenny, we can no longer be friends.

But what I would expect is for them to go to Jenny and be like, exactly what happened here is,

And like, how can we all be cool?

No.

Nobody wanted to be involved.

Okay.

My fear would be like, I host a lot of parties.

I like,

I'm a chef.

I host a lot of dinner parties.

My fear would be if this happened the weekend before I was hosting a dinner party between my friends.

What I would not want is for these two friends to show up, for me to have no understanding of where Jenny was coming from, what Jenny was upset about, why she behaved in that manner, and to have her go off at something that I was hosting or like...

brought these people into the same room together like i would want everybody to feel comfortable and safe so my concern is that at no point after this have i ever felt like anything's been resolved or there's any like comfortability or any like sanity going on here and again like as adults it's like exactly how are we behaving and what are we doing in these spaces to like not make people feel like they can be comfortable if they're like

you know, in the same room together.

And I'm not saying that they need to like mediate or manage, but the fact that like no follow-up questions were ever presented to Jenny is like exactly what was going on here.

And I was kind of just expected to like bite my tongue and hope that she didn't mean it is where I really like have umbrage.

I did briefly.

But there wasn't really any overlap there.

No.