Jessie Reyez
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No, and if anything, you have no idea the favor that you're doing. Right. You have no idea the favor that you're doing to me every time that you throw me something negative. Period. Alchemy is a beautiful thing. It's a beautiful thing. It's a beautiful thing. And when you know how to do it, that shit, you're just fanning a fire, bro. Right. That's all you're doing, so fan me up. Damn it.
No, and if anything, you have no idea the favor that you're doing. Right. You have no idea the favor that you're doing to me every time that you throw me something negative. Period. Alchemy is a beautiful thing. It's a beautiful thing. It's a beautiful thing. And when you know how to do it, that shit, you're just fanning a fire, bro. Right. That's all you're doing, so fan me up. Damn it.
Yeah.
Yeah.
It's so great to train yourself that way because it's so hard to do it in those moments. Right. To like advocate for yourself that way. Especially in this industry. Especially in this. Oh, my God. Especially in this industry. but it serves you so much to train your brain if you don't naturally have that. I got a lot of that from my parents.
It's so great to train yourself that way because it's so hard to do it in those moments. Right. To like advocate for yourself that way. Especially in this industry. Especially in this. Oh, my God. Especially in this industry. but it serves you so much to train your brain if you don't naturally have that. I got a lot of that from my parents.
My parents just put me in situations where I had to have thick skin. Right. Me too.
My parents just put me in situations where I had to have thick skin. Right. Me too.
to fail faster because time is going to pass you by anyway and so many people get paralyzed by indecision and they like up like they're just they're scared and yeah and the when you really break it down to brass tacks what you're really afraid of is being perceived and if you're scared about people seeing you if you really if you really think about it the people that are seeing you aren't even working on their own because if they were they were they wouldn't even be paying any attention to you and whatever failure might be in front of you or behind you so
to fail faster because time is going to pass you by anyway and so many people get paralyzed by indecision and they like up like they're just they're scared and yeah and the when you really break it down to brass tacks what you're really afraid of is being perceived and if you're scared about people seeing you if you really if you really think about it the people that are seeing you aren't even working on their own because if they were they were they wouldn't even be paying any attention to you and whatever failure might be in front of you or behind you so
It's kind of fucked up, but when you think about it that way, you're like, who the fuck are you to be judging me when you're not even focused on your own shit? So what am I even ultimately scared of? So fuck that. Let me just focus on my own shit. And if you do fuck up, it's fine. Again, this doesn't come overnight if you're not naturally like this.
It's kind of fucked up, but when you think about it that way, you're like, who the fuck are you to be judging me when you're not even focused on your own shit? So what am I even ultimately scared of? So fuck that. Let me just focus on my own shit. And if you do fuck up, it's fine. Again, this doesn't come overnight if you're not naturally like this.
You train yourself to be that way, to try something. If it doesn't work, keep it fucking moving. Try something again. If it doesn't work, keep it fucking moving. And then the more knows you get, if you can keep your enthusiasm...
You train yourself to be that way, to try something. If it doesn't work, keep it fucking moving. Try something again. If it doesn't work, keep it fucking moving. And then the more knows you get, if you can keep your enthusiasm...
up the hundredth note might be like the one right before the yes that might change your life yeah you know and you and you're not going to get better unless you try like lebron didn't come out the fucking womb playing like he does you know you have to work at it so that also comes with it but fail faster and learn to objectively criticize yourself and surround yourself with a team because it's impossible to do great things alone right yeah and then tell and then make sure you you you cultivate a culture of um
up the hundredth note might be like the one right before the yes that might change your life yeah you know and you and you're not going to get better unless you try like lebron didn't come out the fucking womb playing like he does you know you have to work at it so that also comes with it but fail faster and learn to objectively criticize yourself and surround yourself with a team because it's impossible to do great things alone right yeah and then tell and then make sure you you you cultivate a culture of um
honesty yeah and telling your people yo i i got thick skin you need to tell me when i'm fucking up here how do i i'll get off stage and i'll be like how do i do what went left what went right so we could like finesse and you know what i mean but you're so me that shit is so because that's how you get better yeah totally cultivate that sort of culture where everybody can be very forthright with criticisms and yeah apply it to yourself with love obviously it's said with love always yeah
honesty yeah and telling your people yo i i got thick skin you need to tell me when i'm fucking up here how do i i'll get off stage and i'll be like how do i do what went left what went right so we could like finesse and you know what i mean but you're so me that shit is so because that's how you get better yeah totally cultivate that sort of culture where everybody can be very forthright with criticisms and yeah apply it to yourself with love obviously it's said with love always yeah
but but learn to do that and then and then also learn to celebrate the small ones because the universe reflects your level of gratitude so period yeah and sometimes we forget because then we get there and then and then the little problem that you would have been stressing about when you had no money or when you were just getting started now you're like oh that ain't shit but it is yeah but it is and you have to celebrate even the small ones you have to celebrate them feel faster celebrate shit gratitude and have thick skin and if you're gonna cry cry we'll wrap it up
but but learn to do that and then and then also learn to celebrate the small ones because the universe reflects your level of gratitude so period yeah and sometimes we forget because then we get there and then and then the little problem that you would have been stressing about when you had no money or when you were just getting started now you're like oh that ain't shit but it is yeah but it is and you have to celebrate even the small ones you have to celebrate them feel faster celebrate shit gratitude and have thick skin and if you're gonna cry cry we'll wrap it up