Jillian Turecki

But if we want to change something, our relationship lives, if we want to change our lives at all, we have to be able to look within and see the ways in which our insecurity gets in the way of a relationship. And we have to see where are also not just our insecurity, but our belief system and our conditioning and the things that happened in childhood.

But if we want to change something, our relationship lives, if we want to change our lives at all, we have to be able to look within and see the ways in which our insecurity gets in the way of a relationship. And we have to see where are also not just our insecurity, but our belief system and our conditioning and the things that happened in childhood.

But if we want to change something, our relationship lives, if we want to change our lives at all, we have to be able to look within and see the ways in which our insecurity gets in the way of a relationship. And we have to see where are also not just our insecurity, but our belief system and our conditioning and the things that happened in childhood.

We are the common denominator in all our relationships. That's actually really good news. Because it means that you can actually change something. This concept is the problem is you. Not necessarily. You know, the problem could very well be the people who you're choosing, but you're choosing them. So you're choosing them. Why?

We are the common denominator in all our relationships. That's actually really good news. Because it means that you can actually change something. This concept is the problem is you. Not necessarily. You know, the problem could very well be the people who you're choosing, but you're choosing them. So you're choosing them. Why?

We are the common denominator in all our relationships. That's actually really good news. Because it means that you can actually change something. This concept is the problem is you. Not necessarily. You know, the problem could very well be the people who you're choosing, but you're choosing them. So you're choosing them. Why?

And so the first principle, the first truth is you have to be willing to look within. And a lot of people are not willing to do that until they are desperate. But it's the only way.

And so the first principle, the first truth is you have to be willing to look within. And a lot of people are not willing to do that until they are desperate. But it's the only way.

And so the first principle, the first truth is you have to be willing to look within. And a lot of people are not willing to do that until they are desperate. But it's the only way.

Yes. And that's, that's a losing strategy. I mean, so much of, if you're reflecting on past relationships that didn't work and, the best thing to do is just to let go and to surrender to the fact that life is about making mistakes and sometimes epic mistakes.

Yes. And that's, that's a losing strategy. I mean, so much of, if you're reflecting on past relationships that didn't work and, the best thing to do is just to let go and to surrender to the fact that life is about making mistakes and sometimes epic mistakes.

Yes. And that's, that's a losing strategy. I mean, so much of, if you're reflecting on past relationships that didn't work and, the best thing to do is just to let go and to surrender to the fact that life is about making mistakes and sometimes epic mistakes.

And if you've got someone smart whispering in your ear telling you to take a look at this and see what you can learn from it so that you don't repeat it, that's the best case scenario. Some things just don't work out because it wasn't right. Some things don't work out. Some relationships don't work out because you both were too immature to make it work out.

And if you've got someone smart whispering in your ear telling you to take a look at this and see what you can learn from it so that you don't repeat it, that's the best case scenario. Some things just don't work out because it wasn't right. Some things don't work out. Some relationships don't work out because you both were too immature to make it work out.

And if you've got someone smart whispering in your ear telling you to take a look at this and see what you can learn from it so that you don't repeat it, that's the best case scenario. Some things just don't work out because it wasn't right. Some things don't work out. Some relationships don't work out because you both were too immature to make it work out.

Sometimes it doesn't work out because, I don't know, like, it wasn't supposed to, you were supposed to learn something. It was supposed to be an experience. Maybe it was supposed to be a love affair instead of it being a marriage. You know, I mean, but this is the thing that we, um, romantic relationships are what, are where we feel most vulnerable.

Sometimes it doesn't work out because, I don't know, like, it wasn't supposed to, you were supposed to learn something. It was supposed to be an experience. Maybe it was supposed to be a love affair instead of it being a marriage. You know, I mean, but this is the thing that we, um, romantic relationships are what, are where we feel most vulnerable.

Sometimes it doesn't work out because, I don't know, like, it wasn't supposed to, you were supposed to learn something. It was supposed to be an experience. Maybe it was supposed to be a love affair instead of it being a marriage. You know, I mean, but this is the thing that we, um, romantic relationships are what, are where we feel most vulnerable.

Always, yes.

Always, yes.