Jillian Turecki

When the truth is, you're just going to choose the person who's on a similar level of consciousness as your own. And even if you did meet someone who's better than you, they're not going to want to be in a relationship with you. So and no one's inherently better than you, but you know what I mean? Someone who maybe has dealt with their childhood stuff, you know, and has their life in order.

And maybe you don't. Right. So we wake up from that from that euphoria. And then we think, oh, this isn't fun. And then all the expectations come and you're like, well, you're not making me happy. And that depression that I had two days before I met you that magically went away when I met you, it's come back. There must be something wrong with you or this must not be love.

And maybe you don't. Right. So we wake up from that from that euphoria. And then we think, oh, this isn't fun. And then all the expectations come and you're like, well, you're not making me happy. And that depression that I had two days before I met you that magically went away when I met you, it's come back. There must be something wrong with you or this must not be love.

And maybe you don't. Right. So we wake up from that from that euphoria. And then we think, oh, this isn't fun. And then all the expectations come and you're like, well, you're not making me happy. And that depression that I had two days before I met you that magically went away when I met you, it's come back. There must be something wrong with you or this must not be love.

And people are operating like this more than you think.

And people are operating like this more than you think.

And people are operating like this more than you think.

Yeah, exactly. That's actually well said. It's very true. And yeah, that's very true. Unless you get into a relationship and you're someone who realizes this, unless you've read my book or unless you've read other people's books, right? And you're like, I understand that... what I'm actually looking for is not just this feeling.

Yeah, exactly. That's actually well said. It's very true. And yeah, that's very true. Unless you get into a relationship and you're someone who realizes this, unless you've read my book or unless you've read other people's books, right? And you're like, I understand that... what I'm actually looking for is not just this feeling.

Yeah, exactly. That's actually well said. It's very true. And yeah, that's very true. Unless you get into a relationship and you're someone who realizes this, unless you've read my book or unless you've read other people's books, right? And you're like, I understand that... what I'm actually looking for is not just this feeling.

I'm looking for someone who will challenge me in the best possible ways. Not challenge me to the point where every single wound in my body is triggered because of whatever is going on between the two of us, but they challenge me to actually step up. They challenge me to be a better person.

I'm looking for someone who will challenge me in the best possible ways. Not challenge me to the point where every single wound in my body is triggered because of whatever is going on between the two of us, but they challenge me to actually step up. They challenge me to be a better person.

I'm looking for someone who will challenge me in the best possible ways. Not challenge me to the point where every single wound in my body is triggered because of whatever is going on between the two of us, but they challenge me to actually step up. They challenge me to be a better person.

And, uh, and we have, and we have the same values and this is someone who I can build with and immature love, immature love says I am in love with my projected idealization of you. And the moment you show me that you're real, I'm going to pull away. And mature love says, I see all of you. I see your nuance. I see your shortcomings. I see your brilliance. I see your quirks. I see your past.

And, uh, and we have, and we have the same values and this is someone who I can build with and immature love, immature love says I am in love with my projected idealization of you. And the moment you show me that you're real, I'm going to pull away. And mature love says, I see all of you. I see your nuance. I see your shortcomings. I see your brilliance. I see your quirks. I see your past.

And, uh, and we have, and we have the same values and this is someone who I can build with and immature love, immature love says I am in love with my projected idealization of you. And the moment you show me that you're real, I'm going to pull away. And mature love says, I see all of you. I see your nuance. I see your shortcomings. I see your brilliance. I see your quirks. I see your past.

And I choose you.

And I choose you.

And I choose you.

Yes.