Jillian Turecki

It's like all of a sudden, if we've been living up here in our heads and then we meet someone we're really excited about, all of a sudden we feel like we're in our hearts more. And that's always a more comfortable place for human beings to live. We're always happier when we are living it, when we're more in our bodies and less in our heads, always.

It's like all of a sudden, if we've been living up here in our heads and then we meet someone we're really excited about, all of a sudden we feel like we're in our hearts more. And that's always a more comfortable place for human beings to live. We're always happier when we are living it, when we're more in our bodies and less in our heads, always.

It's like all of a sudden, if we've been living up here in our heads and then we meet someone we're really excited about, all of a sudden we feel like we're in our hearts more. And that's always a more comfortable place for human beings to live. We're always happier when we are living it, when we're more in our bodies and less in our heads, always.

And then we get people in this stage of meeting someone in a relationship There's a spectrum, but some people, we can get really crazy during this time. We can get incredibly obsessive. And we're not taught in school how to process our enthusiasm.

And then we get people in this stage of meeting someone in a relationship There's a spectrum, but some people, we can get really crazy during this time. We can get incredibly obsessive. And we're not taught in school how to process our enthusiasm.

And then we get people in this stage of meeting someone in a relationship There's a spectrum, but some people, we can get really crazy during this time. We can get incredibly obsessive. And we're not taught in school how to process our enthusiasm.

So then we start, you know, the crush begins and we start thinking that we can't live without this person and they are the one and that whole narrative starts. When really what is happening is that you have chemistry with someone and that rush of hormones and that rush of excitement has very little to do, as I said, with them. And love is not just a feeling. Love is actually a verb.

So then we start, you know, the crush begins and we start thinking that we can't live without this person and they are the one and that whole narrative starts. When really what is happening is that you have chemistry with someone and that rush of hormones and that rush of excitement has very little to do, as I said, with them. And love is not just a feeling. Love is actually a verb.

So then we start, you know, the crush begins and we start thinking that we can't live without this person and they are the one and that whole narrative starts. When really what is happening is that you have chemistry with someone and that rush of hormones and that rush of excitement has very little to do, as I said, with them. And love is not just a feeling. Love is actually a verb.

It's an intentional practice. We do love. We don't just feel love. And that thing that you feel in the beginning is not love. People are like, oh, we have such an amazing connection. Well, great. I don't want to rain on anyone's parade. I mean, we have a very fleeting experience on this earth. And that's a lot of fun. Right?

It's an intentional practice. We do love. We don't just feel love. And that thing that you feel in the beginning is not love. People are like, oh, we have such an amazing connection. Well, great. I don't want to rain on anyone's parade. I mean, we have a very fleeting experience on this earth. And that's a lot of fun. Right?

It's an intentional practice. We do love. We don't just feel love. And that thing that you feel in the beginning is not love. People are like, oh, we have such an amazing connection. Well, great. I don't want to rain on anyone's parade. I mean, we have a very fleeting experience on this earth. And that's a lot of fun. Right?

But we also have to adapt and we have to process the fact that what we're experiencing is, you know, it's not love. It's chemistry. It's attraction. And people think... So let's say the honeymoon stage of a relationship, let's say it lasts anywhere three months to six months, maybe nine months, you know, it's depending. And when we start to wake up from that, that,

But we also have to adapt and we have to process the fact that what we're experiencing is, you know, it's not love. It's chemistry. It's attraction. And people think... So let's say the honeymoon stage of a relationship, let's say it lasts anywhere three months to six months, maybe nine months, you know, it's depending. And when we start to wake up from that, that,

But we also have to adapt and we have to process the fact that what we're experiencing is, you know, it's not love. It's chemistry. It's attraction. And people think... So let's say the honeymoon stage of a relationship, let's say it lasts anywhere three months to six months, maybe nine months, you know, it's depending. And when we start to wake up from that, that,

that drunkenness that we are, you know, we're like drunk on lust and excitement. And when we start to emerge, we start to sober up and then we realize, oh, like you're just a, you know, you're a person and you have flaws and, you know, And you're not coming to save me. And you're not better than me. Because sometimes we want to meet that person who's in some way better than us.

that drunkenness that we are, you know, we're like drunk on lust and excitement. And when we start to emerge, we start to sober up and then we realize, oh, like you're just a, you know, you're a person and you have flaws and, you know, And you're not coming to save me. And you're not better than me. Because sometimes we want to meet that person who's in some way better than us.

that drunkenness that we are, you know, we're like drunk on lust and excitement. And when we start to emerge, we start to sober up and then we realize, oh, like you're just a, you know, you're a person and you have flaws and, you know, And you're not coming to save me. And you're not better than me. Because sometimes we want to meet that person who's in some way better than us.

When the truth is, you're just going to choose the person who's on a similar level of consciousness as your own. And even if you did meet someone who's better than you, they're not going to want to be in a relationship with you. So and no one's inherently better than you, but you know what I mean? Someone who maybe has dealt with their childhood stuff, you know, and has their life in order.

When the truth is, you're just going to choose the person who's on a similar level of consciousness as your own. And even if you did meet someone who's better than you, they're not going to want to be in a relationship with you. So and no one's inherently better than you, but you know what I mean? Someone who maybe has dealt with their childhood stuff, you know, and has their life in order.