Jillian Turecki

This is also what you're at great risk of is taking your partner for granted. And don't stop pursuing your partner. Don't stop being curious about this person. Yeah, maybe you're not in that crazy stage, but...

This is also what you're at great risk of is taking your partner for granted. And don't stop pursuing your partner. Don't stop being curious about this person. Yeah, maybe you're not in that crazy stage, but...

This is also what you're at great risk of is taking your partner for granted. And don't stop pursuing your partner. Don't stop being curious about this person. Yeah, maybe you're not in that crazy stage, but...

you still, because you can go deeper and because actually love and trust can really grow, you still have to be very present and you still have to, you know, in the beginning, we're all the ambassadors of ourselves. We're like, let me just bring like, you know, let me put my best foot forward. What if you continued to want to or to try to put your best foot forward years in?

you still, because you can go deeper and because actually love and trust can really grow, you still have to be very present and you still have to, you know, in the beginning, we're all the ambassadors of ourselves. We're like, let me just bring like, you know, let me put my best foot forward. What if you continued to want to or to try to put your best foot forward years in?

you still, because you can go deeper and because actually love and trust can really grow, you still have to be very present and you still have to, you know, in the beginning, we're all the ambassadors of ourselves. We're like, let me just bring like, you know, let me put my best foot forward. What if you continued to want to or to try to put your best foot forward years in?

What would that look like? And what would that feel like?

What would that look like? And what would that feel like?

What would that look like? And what would that feel like?

So there's two camps of thought that's sort of percolating in the zeitgeist. One is you don't have to love yourself to love anyone else. You don't have to love yourself to be loved by someone else. And all of that is true. You learn to love yourself while you're in relationship.

So there's two camps of thought that's sort of percolating in the zeitgeist. One is you don't have to love yourself to love anyone else. You don't have to love yourself to be loved by someone else. And all of that is true. You learn to love yourself while you're in relationship.

So there's two camps of thought that's sort of percolating in the zeitgeist. One is you don't have to love yourself to love anyone else. You don't have to love yourself to be loved by someone else. And all of that is true. You learn to love yourself while you're in relationship.

Then there's another camp that says you have to love yourself in order to love someone else or in order to be in a relationship. Both are wrong and both are true in their own way. you don't have to completely love yourself in order. There's lots of people who don't love themselves who love plenty of people. And there are lots of people who don't love themselves who are loved by others.

Then there's another camp that says you have to love yourself in order to love someone else or in order to be in a relationship. Both are wrong and both are true in their own way. you don't have to completely love yourself in order. There's lots of people who don't love themselves who love plenty of people. And there are lots of people who don't love themselves who are loved by others.

Then there's another camp that says you have to love yourself in order to love someone else or in order to be in a relationship. Both are wrong and both are true in their own way. you don't have to completely love yourself in order. There's lots of people who don't love themselves who love plenty of people. And there are lots of people who don't love themselves who are loved by others.

But you better believe that if you don't, if you really struggle to see your value, that you allow and you tolerate crappy things in a relationship that you're in trouble because our relationships reflect how we feel about ourselves. So I think of self-love as self-acceptance. I see it as, look, straddling that very delicate line between

But you better believe that if you don't, if you really struggle to see your value, that you allow and you tolerate crappy things in a relationship that you're in trouble because our relationships reflect how we feel about ourselves. So I think of self-love as self-acceptance. I see it as, look, straddling that very delicate line between

But you better believe that if you don't, if you really struggle to see your value, that you allow and you tolerate crappy things in a relationship that you're in trouble because our relationships reflect how we feel about ourselves. So I think of self-love as self-acceptance. I see it as, look, straddling that very delicate line between

understanding that you have work to do and there are things that you can improve on and quite possibly absolutely need to improve on. And yet that doesn't diminish your value as a human being in any way. That doesn't diminish your worth. And self-acceptance is learning to hold ourselves in high enough regard even though there are things about ourselves that we may not like.

understanding that you have work to do and there are things that you can improve on and quite possibly absolutely need to improve on. And yet that doesn't diminish your value as a human being in any way. That doesn't diminish your worth. And self-acceptance is learning to hold ourselves in high enough regard even though there are things about ourselves that we may not like.