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Jillian Turecki

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Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

And the funny thing is, he's right. A lot of the time he's right. But we know that already. What we need in that moment is someone just to listen or to give us a hug and to... have presence with us. And then we can maybe calm down and enter our more rational minds because women are perfectly capable of rationality. But at first, we might be feeling like that intensity of emotion.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

And the funny thing is, he's right. A lot of the time he's right. But we know that already. What we need in that moment is someone just to listen or to give us a hug and to... have presence with us. And then we can maybe calm down and enter our more rational minds because women are perfectly capable of rationality. But at first, we might be feeling like that intensity of emotion.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

And here's a thing about emotions that probably the number one thing that women complain about, if you will, their male partners that they wish that they had more of, that men need to know is, I wish my emotions didn't scare him off. If I had a dime for every time I've heard that phrase in some way spoken to me and that I've thought it, I would have so many dimes.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

And here's a thing about emotions that probably the number one thing that women complain about, if you will, their male partners that they wish that they had more of, that men need to know is, I wish my emotions didn't scare him off. If I had a dime for every time I've heard that phrase in some way spoken to me and that I've thought it, I would have so many dimes.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

And here's a thing about emotions that probably the number one thing that women complain about, if you will, their male partners that they wish that they had more of, that men need to know is, I wish my emotions didn't scare him off. If I had a dime for every time I've heard that phrase in some way spoken to me and that I've thought it, I would have so many dimes.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

I would have enough dimes to feed the world kind of thing, that kind of thing. I wish that I could be in a bad mood and he wouldn't take it personally. I think, and this is my experience, and I would love to hear your thoughts, Chris, is that a lot of men, when they get into relationships with their female partners, there's an unconscious feeling

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

I would have enough dimes to feed the world kind of thing, that kind of thing. I wish that I could be in a bad mood and he wouldn't take it personally. I think, and this is my experience, and I would love to hear your thoughts, Chris, is that a lot of men, when they get into relationships with their female partners, there's an unconscious feeling

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

I would have enough dimes to feed the world kind of thing, that kind of thing. I wish that I could be in a bad mood and he wouldn't take it personally. I think, and this is my experience, and I would love to hear your thoughts, Chris, is that a lot of men, when they get into relationships with their female partners, there's an unconscious feeling

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

need for their woman to be happy because they feel so responsible for our happiness. And I think that what I've been told by many men, personally and professionally, that what he's most drawn to is when we're relaxed and we're smiling and we're happy. But we can't, we women, we can't be happy all the time. And sometimes we get anxious and stressed and we have a very delicate hormonal system.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

need for their woman to be happy because they feel so responsible for our happiness. And I think that what I've been told by many men, personally and professionally, that what he's most drawn to is when we're relaxed and we're smiling and we're happy. But we can't, we women, we can't be happy all the time. And sometimes we get anxious and stressed and we have a very delicate hormonal system.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

need for their woman to be happy because they feel so responsible for our happiness. And I think that what I've been told by many men, personally and professionally, that what he's most drawn to is when we're relaxed and we're smiling and we're happy. But we can't, we women, we can't be happy all the time. And sometimes we get anxious and stressed and we have a very delicate hormonal system.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

And, you know, we just, we have a different mind. We have something called diffuse awareness or we're taking in, we feel responsible for everyone and everything. And we're very, and we're not so, women have the capacity to go into the part of the brain that's very singular focused. But we also have this incredible curse slash gift to just juggle like 50 million things at once.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

And, you know, we just, we have a different mind. We have something called diffuse awareness or we're taking in, we feel responsible for everyone and everything. And we're very, and we're not so, women have the capacity to go into the part of the brain that's very singular focused. But we also have this incredible curse slash gift to just juggle like 50 million things at once.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

And, you know, we just, we have a different mind. We have something called diffuse awareness or we're taking in, we feel responsible for everyone and everything. And we're very, and we're not so, women have the capacity to go into the part of the brain that's very singular focused. But we also have this incredible curse slash gift to just juggle like 50 million things at once.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

And so we're not always going to be happy also because we're a human being. And a lot of women have said, he can't handle it. He gets very reactive when I'm not happy.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

And so we're not always going to be happy also because we're a human being. And a lot of women have said, he can't handle it. He gets very reactive when I'm not happy.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

And so we're not always going to be happy also because we're a human being. And a lot of women have said, he can't handle it. He gets very reactive when I'm not happy.

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

is very important. But a whirlwind of emotions doesn't always have to be drama. You know, I've certainly worked with a lot of women to stop bringing drama. There's a lot of men who bring drama, but yes, optimizing peace. But do they really want peace?

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

is very important. But a whirlwind of emotions doesn't always have to be drama. You know, I've certainly worked with a lot of women to stop bringing drama. There's a lot of men who bring drama, but yes, optimizing peace. But do they really want peace?

Modern Wisdom
#893 - Jillian Turecki - 9 Harsh Truths About How Relationships Work

is very important. But a whirlwind of emotions doesn't always have to be drama. You know, I've certainly worked with a lot of women to stop bringing drama. There's a lot of men who bring drama, but yes, optimizing peace. But do they really want peace?