Jillian Turecki

No, no, that's a problem. I don't believe that she... But her saying that is, I don't believe that. You know, it's not necessarily true.

No, no, that's a problem. I don't believe that she... But her saying that is, I don't believe that. You know, it's not necessarily true.

No, no, that's a problem. I don't believe that she... But her saying that is, I don't believe that. You know, it's not necessarily true.

Well, I mean, it's like, well... If you say, put that aside, if you're saying, well, the men who want me want a challenge, what does that actually really mean? To me, that's saying, well, you're not willing to actually do the work to actually bring some harmony into this relationship. I'm not speaking about Whitney. I'm just saying in general. That's a lovely excuse.

Well, I mean, it's like, well... If you say, put that aside, if you're saying, well, the men who want me want a challenge, what does that actually really mean? To me, that's saying, well, you're not willing to actually do the work to actually bring some harmony into this relationship. I'm not speaking about Whitney. I'm just saying in general. That's a lovely excuse.

Well, I mean, it's like, well... If you say, put that aside, if you're saying, well, the men who want me want a challenge, what does that actually really mean? To me, that's saying, well, you're not willing to actually do the work to actually bring some harmony into this relationship. I'm not speaking about Whitney. I'm just saying in general. That's a lovely excuse.

I mean, we're all challenging, right? You have to ask yourself, how am I difficult to live with? Because we're all difficult in some way to live with. And I think that having some level of awareness of how we are difficult to live with And being able to say to our partner, I love you for putting up with this part of me. That's where it's at.

I mean, we're all challenging, right? You have to ask yourself, how am I difficult to live with? Because we're all difficult in some way to live with. And I think that having some level of awareness of how we are difficult to live with And being able to say to our partner, I love you for putting up with this part of me. That's where it's at.

I mean, we're all challenging, right? You have to ask yourself, how am I difficult to live with? Because we're all difficult in some way to live with. And I think that having some level of awareness of how we are difficult to live with And being able to say to our partner, I love you for putting up with this part of me. That's where it's at.

Yeah. Look, and some people are easier to live with than others. They just are. But we all come to the table with stuff. And I think that it's just a matter of when it comes to choosing a partner, a lot of people don't know how to differentiate between the tolerable and the intolerable because they didn't learn that. They saw one or both of their parents tolerate a lot.

Yeah. Look, and some people are easier to live with than others. They just are. But we all come to the table with stuff. And I think that it's just a matter of when it comes to choosing a partner, a lot of people don't know how to differentiate between the tolerable and the intolerable because they didn't learn that. They saw one or both of their parents tolerate a lot.

Yeah. Look, and some people are easier to live with than others. They just are. But we all come to the table with stuff. And I think that it's just a matter of when it comes to choosing a partner, a lot of people don't know how to differentiate between the tolerable and the intolerable because they didn't learn that. They saw one or both of their parents tolerate a lot.

And so one of the things, if you...

And so one of the things, if you...

And so one of the things, if you...

keep having if one keeps having these sort of disappointing relationships these very painful relationships one of the one of the things to explore is knowing where where your limit is in terms of what you can tolerate because we should have a lot of flexibility and tolerate a lot in a relationship but you need to know that chunk of whatever that you just won't tolerate you know

keep having if one keeps having these sort of disappointing relationships these very painful relationships one of the one of the things to explore is knowing where where your limit is in terms of what you can tolerate because we should have a lot of flexibility and tolerate a lot in a relationship but you need to know that chunk of whatever that you just won't tolerate you know

keep having if one keeps having these sort of disappointing relationships these very painful relationships one of the one of the things to explore is knowing where where your limit is in terms of what you can tolerate because we should have a lot of flexibility and tolerate a lot in a relationship but you need to know that chunk of whatever that you just won't tolerate you know

Yeah. Well, this is what we were talking about a little bit before, which is that we are their best selves in the beginning, and then we get comfortable with And then we have this unconscious belief that this person that loves us should love us no matter what.

Yeah. Well, this is what we were talking about a little bit before, which is that we are their best selves in the beginning, and then we get comfortable with And then we have this unconscious belief that this person that loves us should love us no matter what.