Jillian Turecki

It's how they're dealing with the money problems. It's how they're dealing with certain things that, and these things might be real problems that are highly systemic. but we think that once the stress gets better, that the relationship will get better when the truth is how we, how we, it's how we respond or react to what's happening in life that will ultimately improve the relationship.

It's how they're dealing with the money problems. It's how they're dealing with certain things that, and these things might be real problems that are highly systemic. but we think that once the stress gets better, that the relationship will get better when the truth is how we, how we, it's how we respond or react to what's happening in life that will ultimately improve the relationship.

It's how they're dealing with the money problems. It's how they're dealing with certain things that, and these things might be real problems that are highly systemic. but we think that once the stress gets better, that the relationship will get better when the truth is how we, how we, it's how we respond or react to what's happening in life that will ultimately improve the relationship.

And sometimes, you know, families and couples really need help to deal with very big things. But like I said, um, you'd be shocked to learn that often it's not something legitimately stressful, like you lost all your money, or you can't buy groceries, or your child is sick. These are real things. I'm seeing it all the time in couples who are just stressed out about nothing.

And sometimes, you know, families and couples really need help to deal with very big things. But like I said, um, you'd be shocked to learn that often it's not something legitimately stressful, like you lost all your money, or you can't buy groceries, or your child is sick. These are real things. I'm seeing it all the time in couples who are just stressed out about nothing.

And sometimes, you know, families and couples really need help to deal with very big things. But like I said, um, you'd be shocked to learn that often it's not something legitimately stressful, like you lost all your money, or you can't buy groceries, or your child is sick. These are real things. I'm seeing it all the time in couples who are just stressed out about nothing.

Yeah, it's the law of the land. You cannot convince anyone to love you. You can't beg them to love you. You can try to jump through whatever hoops you want to get them to love you. You can try to change yourself to get them to love you or to choose you. You can use your kids as pawns to get them to stay. I mean, you could try all you can, but it's impossible to convince someone to love you.

Yeah, it's the law of the land. You cannot convince anyone to love you. You can't beg them to love you. You can try to jump through whatever hoops you want to get them to love you. You can try to change yourself to get them to love you or to choose you. You can use your kids as pawns to get them to stay. I mean, you could try all you can, but it's impossible to convince someone to love you.

Yeah, it's the law of the land. You cannot convince anyone to love you. You can't beg them to love you. You can try to jump through whatever hoops you want to get them to love you. You can try to change yourself to get them to love you or to choose you. You can use your kids as pawns to get them to stay. I mean, you could try all you can, but it's impossible to convince someone to love you.

Although we have to use a little bit more of this head for sure when we're making these decisions. Yeah, it's very true. I mean, you just can't make yourself love someone. You can't make yourself feel those feelings. And you can't convince someone to choose you. And people are doing it all the time in very subtle ways. They're trying to seduce. They're trying to convince.

Although we have to use a little bit more of this head for sure when we're making these decisions. Yeah, it's very true. I mean, you just can't make yourself love someone. You can't make yourself feel those feelings. And you can't convince someone to choose you. And people are doing it all the time in very subtle ways. They're trying to seduce. They're trying to convince.

Although we have to use a little bit more of this head for sure when we're making these decisions. Yeah, it's very true. I mean, you just can't make yourself love someone. You can't make yourself feel those feelings. And you can't convince someone to choose you. And people are doing it all the time in very subtle ways. They're trying to seduce. They're trying to convince.

They're trying to change themselves. And there's so much grace in accepting, even if it shatters your heart, accepting this truth. And life becomes a lot easier when you adopt this law into your DNA, basically.

They're trying to change themselves. And there's so much grace in accepting, even if it shatters your heart, accepting this truth. And life becomes a lot easier when you adopt this law into your DNA, basically.

They're trying to change themselves. And there's so much grace in accepting, even if it shatters your heart, accepting this truth. And life becomes a lot easier when you adopt this law into your DNA, basically.

Yeah. So I think that people intellectually understand this, but People do get into relationships thinking that the relationship is going to be the thing that fulfills them and that the person is going to be the person who fulfills them, that there's this perfect person who's going to come in and rescue you. And again, even though we know logically that's not the case, we do in many ways have

Yeah. So I think that people intellectually understand this, but People do get into relationships thinking that the relationship is going to be the thing that fulfills them and that the person is going to be the person who fulfills them, that there's this perfect person who's going to come in and rescue you. And again, even though we know logically that's not the case, we do in many ways have

Yeah. So I think that people intellectually understand this, but People do get into relationships thinking that the relationship is going to be the thing that fulfills them and that the person is going to be the person who fulfills them, that there's this perfect person who's going to come in and rescue you. And again, even though we know logically that's not the case, we do in many ways have

have this fantasy that when this right person comes into our lives, everything's going to be better. Or when our partner is not able to, it's just not making us feel all delightful and happy one day, that somehow it's their responsibility to do that. fulfillment can only come from the inside.

have this fantasy that when this right person comes into our lives, everything's going to be better. Or when our partner is not able to, it's just not making us feel all delightful and happy one day, that somehow it's their responsibility to do that. fulfillment can only come from the inside.