Jillian Turecki

No, it could very well be that one person is more of a problem. Their behavior is more of a problem than the other. But more times than not, it really does take two to tango. And so the constant finger pointing without being able to say to yourself, okay, what am I doing that's contributing to whatever it is that's not working in my relationship?

The moment you can ask yourself that is the moment that you transform yourself. You are transformed in that moment with just that question. And it's very, very important. So when I work with people and when I worked a lot with couples, nine times out of 10, I'm helping people see change. their role and their role could be their perspective.

The moment you can ask yourself that is the moment that you transform yourself. You are transformed in that moment with just that question. And it's very, very important. So when I work with people and when I worked a lot with couples, nine times out of 10, I'm helping people see change. their role and their role could be their perspective.

The moment you can ask yourself that is the moment that you transform yourself. You are transformed in that moment with just that question. And it's very, very important. So when I work with people and when I worked a lot with couples, nine times out of 10, I'm helping people see change. their role and their role could be their perspective.

Their role could be how they're just not considering the other person's side. Most people, when they go into like a couples therapy couch, they're thinking fix the other person. And, you know, oftentimes we change the dynamic between us and another person by changing ourselves. Not always, but often.

Their role could be how they're just not considering the other person's side. Most people, when they go into like a couples therapy couch, they're thinking fix the other person. And, you know, oftentimes we change the dynamic between us and another person by changing ourselves. Not always, but often.

Their role could be how they're just not considering the other person's side. Most people, when they go into like a couples therapy couch, they're thinking fix the other person. And, you know, oftentimes we change the dynamic between us and another person by changing ourselves. Not always, but often.

It is very hard. I mean, mindfulness is a practice. Mindfulness is a practice. The example that you gave, I mean, that could be so many different things. Like It could be that you're choosing the wrong men, right? That could be one thing. It could also be that a lot of women will, because we value safety so much,

It is very hard. I mean, mindfulness is a practice. Mindfulness is a practice. The example that you gave, I mean, that could be so many different things. Like It could be that you're choosing the wrong men, right? That could be one thing. It could also be that a lot of women will, because we value safety so much,

It is very hard. I mean, mindfulness is a practice. Mindfulness is a practice. The example that you gave, I mean, that could be so many different things. Like It could be that you're choosing the wrong men, right? That could be one thing. It could also be that a lot of women will, because we value safety so much,

we have a habit of always trying to find what's wrong in another person because we're looking for danger so that we can protect ourselves from danger. So oftentimes, is it actions not matching up with words or is there a communication breakdown? Is it the way that you're asking for things or is it actually them not being into integrity?

we have a habit of always trying to find what's wrong in another person because we're looking for danger so that we can protect ourselves from danger. So oftentimes, is it actions not matching up with words or is there a communication breakdown? Is it the way that you're asking for things or is it actually them not being into integrity?

we have a habit of always trying to find what's wrong in another person because we're looking for danger so that we can protect ourselves from danger. So oftentimes, is it actions not matching up with words or is there a communication breakdown? Is it the way that you're asking for things or is it actually them not being into integrity?

There's so many different ways to look at the scenario that you shared.

There's so many different ways to look at the scenario that you shared.

There's so many different ways to look at the scenario that you shared.

mindfulness as a practice is okay if i want to be in a relationship with this person are our values aligned do we get along do i feel good around this person if i were to have a child would i want them to grow up to be like this person okay and then let's say you're like okay yes i think so i'm discovering so but we're having these issues okay how am i communicating

mindfulness as a practice is okay if i want to be in a relationship with this person are our values aligned do we get along do i feel good around this person if i were to have a child would i want them to grow up to be like this person okay and then let's say you're like okay yes i think so i'm discovering so but we're having these issues okay how am i communicating

mindfulness as a practice is okay if i want to be in a relationship with this person are our values aligned do we get along do i feel good around this person if i were to have a child would i want them to grow up to be like this person okay and then let's say you're like okay yes i think so i'm discovering so but we're having these issues okay how am i communicating

Am I only thinking about my needs, my insecurity, my frustration, or am I taking the time to ask them about their experience of the same situation?