Jillian Turecki

It's usually within the first year in that first six months, we, we, Typically, we get all the information that we need to know if this is someone who is a good idea to pursue a relationship with. Of course, we don't know if it's gonna work long-term, like no one has a crystal ball, we don't know.

But we do find everything that we need to know in the first six months, but we tend to lie to ourselves.

But we do find everything that we need to know in the first six months, but we tend to lie to ourselves.

But we do find everything that we need to know in the first six months, but we tend to lie to ourselves.

So you raise a really good point. Yeah, I mean, for sure. I have been the ambassador of myself when I was younger in these relationships. I mean, totally, you know, and it's like, okay. And actually, I mean, that does speak to, you're speaking to something incredibly important, which is why would one do that? Why would one pretend to be an outdoorsy person when they're really not?

So you raise a really good point. Yeah, I mean, for sure. I have been the ambassador of myself when I was younger in these relationships. I mean, totally, you know, and it's like, okay. And actually, I mean, that does speak to, you're speaking to something incredibly important, which is why would one do that? Why would one pretend to be an outdoorsy person when they're really not?

So you raise a really good point. Yeah, I mean, for sure. I have been the ambassador of myself when I was younger in these relationships. I mean, totally, you know, and it's like, okay. And actually, I mean, that does speak to, you're speaking to something incredibly important, which is why would one do that? Why would one pretend to be an outdoorsy person when they're really not?

You know, shoot the bow and arrow. It's simple.

You know, shoot the bow and arrow. It's simple.

You know, shoot the bow and arrow. It's simple.

Yes, we want to be wanted. We want to be desired. But at what cost? Because there are lots of people who are not doing that. Right, right.

Yes, we want to be wanted. We want to be desired. But at what cost? Because there are lots of people who are not doing that. Right, right.

Yes, we want to be wanted. We want to be desired. But at what cost? Because there are lots of people who are not doing that. Right, right.

And to be fair, you were super young. I was. It was my Joan of Arc era. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

And to be fair, you were super young. I was. It was my Joan of Arc era. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

And to be fair, you were super young. I was. It was my Joan of Arc era. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

But people are doing this well into their more adulthood. Right. They're still doing that.

But people are doing this well into their more adulthood. Right. They're still doing that.

But people are doing this well into their more adulthood. Right. They're still doing that.

Yeah.