Jillian Turecki

Yeah.

Yeah.

You know, they're still doing that in middle age. They're still doing that. And so. Yeah, we can have a really good laugh about it because it is really funny. But it's the thing that we need to understand that if we're going to do that, first of all, we're doing that for someone who we think is so amazing. We put them on a pedestal.

You know, they're still doing that in middle age. They're still doing that. And so. Yeah, we can have a really good laugh about it because it is really funny. But it's the thing that we need to understand that if we're going to do that, first of all, we're doing that for someone who we think is so amazing. We put them on a pedestal.

You know, they're still doing that in middle age. They're still doing that. And so. Yeah, we can have a really good laugh about it because it is really funny. But it's the thing that we need to understand that if we're going to do that, first of all, we're doing that for someone who we think is so amazing. We put them on a pedestal.

when really they could actually be terrible and or terrible for you. So it's that self abandonment. And I think, look, men do it too, but differently, but a lot of girls do this and I want them to stop. And so that's what's really important is the self-awareness of you, like you chasing this person by trying to be something that you're not is guaranteed to lead you down the wrong path.

when really they could actually be terrible and or terrible for you. So it's that self abandonment. And I think, look, men do it too, but differently, but a lot of girls do this and I want them to stop. And so that's what's really important is the self-awareness of you, like you chasing this person by trying to be something that you're not is guaranteed to lead you down the wrong path.

when really they could actually be terrible and or terrible for you. So it's that self abandonment. And I think, look, men do it too, but differently, but a lot of girls do this and I want them to stop. And so that's what's really important is the self-awareness of you, like you chasing this person by trying to be something that you're not is guaranteed to lead you down the wrong path.

It's a guarantee.

It's a guarantee.

It's a guarantee.

It's never going to work. When I stopped doing this was the next person that I dated.

It's never going to work. When I stopped doing this was the next person that I dated.

It's never going to work. When I stopped doing this was the next person that I dated.

Yes. And actually, exactly. And we become the turnoff. Right.

Yes. And actually, exactly. And we become the turnoff. Right.

Yes. And actually, exactly. And we become the turnoff. Right.

Well, I'm interested because now you're married to him. Fuck.

Well, I'm interested because now you're married to him. Fuck.

Well, I'm interested because now you're married to him. Fuck.