Jillian Turecki

But you said you're too picky. You're too picky, right? So here would be... This is my advice to you. I... I would never suggest that anyone pursue a relationship with someone with whom they don't feel any chemistry. But I think you should have a lot of dates where you are really sitting down with someone and really getting to know someone.

Because one of the things that's really hard to distinguish is the difference between lust and love. And when we feel a lot of that fire and that feeling, you know, you said you're very laid back. So you may be going for like the fiery type and you're leading with that feeling. And I don't want you to not have any chemistry, but I want you to make a deeper connection.

Because one of the things that's really hard to distinguish is the difference between lust and love. And when we feel a lot of that fire and that feeling, you know, you said you're very laid back. So you may be going for like the fiery type and you're leading with that feeling. And I don't want you to not have any chemistry, but I want you to make a deeper connection.

Because one of the things that's really hard to distinguish is the difference between lust and love. And when we feel a lot of that fire and that feeling, you know, you said you're very laid back. So you may be going for like the fiery type and you're leading with that feeling. And I don't want you to not have any chemistry, but I want you to make a deeper connection.

And sometimes that deep connection doesn't come on the first date. It just doesn't come. And if you're looking for the immediate fireworks and if you don't feel it, then you write someone off, then yes, I would say to you that your pickiness is not an indication that you're not ready, but it is an indication that this is one way in which you might be standing in your own way. So,

And sometimes that deep connection doesn't come on the first date. It just doesn't come. And if you're looking for the immediate fireworks and if you don't feel it, then you write someone off, then yes, I would say to you that your pickiness is not an indication that you're not ready, but it is an indication that this is one way in which you might be standing in your own way. So,

And sometimes that deep connection doesn't come on the first date. It just doesn't come. And if you're looking for the immediate fireworks and if you don't feel it, then you write someone off, then yes, I would say to you that your pickiness is not an indication that you're not ready, but it is an indication that this is one way in which you might be standing in your own way. So,

I would actually give women who you think are pleasant and nice more of a chance. And instead of being in the position of vetting them, they have to have the same lifestyle as me, I have to feel that fire, all these things. I want you instead to try to make a connection with another human being. Vielen Dank.

I would actually give women who you think are pleasant and nice more of a chance. And instead of being in the position of vetting them, they have to have the same lifestyle as me, I have to feel that fire, all these things. I want you instead to try to make a connection with another human being. Vielen Dank.

I would actually give women who you think are pleasant and nice more of a chance. And instead of being in the position of vetting them, they have to have the same lifestyle as me, I have to feel that fire, all these things. I want you instead to try to make a connection with another human being. Vielen Dank.

Yes, absolutely. Who accepts you for who you are and you accept her for who she is, but she doesn't have to be doing it with you. And I think that's where you maybe need to expand your mind a little bit.

Yes, absolutely. Who accepts you for who you are and you accept her for who she is, but she doesn't have to be doing it with you. And I think that's where you maybe need to expand your mind a little bit.

Yes, absolutely. Who accepts you for who you are and you accept her for who she is, but she doesn't have to be doing it with you. And I think that's where you maybe need to expand your mind a little bit.

No, I think you can be looking at it through the same... You hope to one day be in a relationship. So I always say prepare. So these are things to help you prepare. And also if you want to put yourself out there and date, there's some very important principles in the book that you need to be aware of so that you have better experiences in a relationship.

No, I think you can be looking at it through the same... You hope to one day be in a relationship. So I always say prepare. So these are things to help you prepare. And also if you want to put yourself out there and date, there's some very important principles in the book that you need to be aware of so that you have better experiences in a relationship.

No, I think you can be looking at it through the same... You hope to one day be in a relationship. So I always say prepare. So these are things to help you prepare. And also if you want to put yourself out there and date, there's some very important principles in the book that you need to be aware of so that you have better experiences in a relationship.

But I would imagine that it's a little scary, it's a little intimidating to put yourself out there and go on dates and then... Maybe you don't have a great date and then you think, well, you know, what's the point? Or, you know, I'm better, I'm happy alone. But could you maybe just think of it as instead of going on dates to find your next partner, can you make some friends with some men?

But I would imagine that it's a little scary, it's a little intimidating to put yourself out there and go on dates and then... Maybe you don't have a great date and then you think, well, you know, what's the point? Or, you know, I'm better, I'm happy alone. But could you maybe just think of it as instead of going on dates to find your next partner, can you make some friends with some men?

But I would imagine that it's a little scary, it's a little intimidating to put yourself out there and go on dates and then... Maybe you don't have a great date and then you think, well, you know, what's the point? Or, you know, I'm better, I'm happy alone. But could you maybe just think of it as instead of going on dates to find your next partner, can you make some friends with some men?

Okay. Do you have a favorite restaurant that you like to go to in the neighborhood? Yes. Okay. So take yourself to dinner or for lunch. Okay. You can sit at the bar and you can bring a book and start talking to people. Now, it doesn't have to be men. You could be sitting next to someone because you said making friends and talking to people comes naturally to you.