Jillian Turecki

And that most of the things that we want in life, the reason why we don't have them, not always, but a lot of times, especially when we talk about romantic love, is in some way we are standing in our own way. And so I believe that the relationship we have with ourselves is the most important relationship we will ever have.

And that's not to encourage just total individualism or not needing anyone. Have your relationship with yourself still means you need people because we need people. But it really is the most important thing. And sometimes strengthening our relationship with ourselves means overcoming selfishness. overcoming things of the ego and overcoming fear and all of that.

And that's not to encourage just total individualism or not needing anyone. Have your relationship with yourself still means you need people because we need people. But it really is the most important thing. And sometimes strengthening our relationship with ourselves means overcoming selfishness. overcoming things of the ego and overcoming fear and all of that.

And that's not to encourage just total individualism or not needing anyone. Have your relationship with yourself still means you need people because we need people. But it really is the most important thing. And sometimes strengthening our relationship with ourselves means overcoming selfishness. overcoming things of the ego and overcoming fear and all of that.

So I really try to encourage people to have an understanding of who they are.

So I really try to encourage people to have an understanding of who they are.

So I really try to encourage people to have an understanding of who they are.

Of trying to understand who they are? Fear, stubbornness, which is usually cloaked in fear. It can be overwhelming. And, you know, it's not like you shouldn't be looking inward all the time. You know, that's, it's not all about you. Like it begins with you, but it's not all about you. You don't want to be constantly self-reflecting. But, you know, a lot of people, they, well, what's the point?

Of trying to understand who they are? Fear, stubbornness, which is usually cloaked in fear. It can be overwhelming. And, you know, it's not like you shouldn't be looking inward all the time. You know, that's, it's not all about you. Like it begins with you, but it's not all about you. You don't want to be constantly self-reflecting. But, you know, a lot of people, they, well, what's the point?

Of trying to understand who they are? Fear, stubbornness, which is usually cloaked in fear. It can be overwhelming. And, you know, it's not like you shouldn't be looking inward all the time. You know, that's, it's not all about you. Like it begins with you, but it's not all about you. You don't want to be constantly self-reflecting. But, you know, a lot of people, they, well, what's the point?

You know, that's for wusses, whatever it is. It's just, it's belief system and it's usually fear. It's like, Okay, so if I go there, what am I going to discover? And is that going to be too much for me to handle emotionally?

You know, that's for wusses, whatever it is. It's just, it's belief system and it's usually fear. It's like, Okay, so if I go there, what am I going to discover? And is that going to be too much for me to handle emotionally?

You know, that's for wusses, whatever it is. It's just, it's belief system and it's usually fear. It's like, Okay, so if I go there, what am I going to discover? And is that going to be too much for me to handle emotionally?

Hugely. Look, there is something that romantic love, particularly in the early stages of romantic love, when the lust and the passion is high, that, you know, is uniquely, is unique, right? But or and, I should say, this feeling that we can't feel fulfilled unless we have this person in our life. We can't feel fulfilled unless we are in a relationship. we can't source love.

Hugely. Look, there is something that romantic love, particularly in the early stages of romantic love, when the lust and the passion is high, that, you know, is uniquely, is unique, right? But or and, I should say, this feeling that we can't feel fulfilled unless we have this person in our life. We can't feel fulfilled unless we are in a relationship. we can't source love.

Hugely. Look, there is something that romantic love, particularly in the early stages of romantic love, when the lust and the passion is high, that, you know, is uniquely, is unique, right? But or and, I should say, this feeling that we can't feel fulfilled unless we have this person in our life. We can't feel fulfilled unless we are in a relationship. we can't source love.

We can't source connection unless we're in a relationship. That's a dangerous place to be because usually that leads to poor choices. It's also, it's not true. And I

We can't source connection unless we're in a relationship. That's a dangerous place to be because usually that leads to poor choices. It's also, it's not true. And I

We can't source connection unless we're in a relationship. That's a dangerous place to be because usually that leads to poor choices. It's also, it's not true. And I

fulfillment truly is an inside job and finding meaning in life and purpose in life that is something that truly begins with us and so I have to help a lot of people recognize that let's just say they meet someone and let's just say this person has been alone for a long time they haven't felt a connection with someone a long time and let's throw in a little bit of boredom