Jillian Turecki
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fulfillment truly is an inside job and finding meaning in life and purpose in life that is something that truly begins with us and so I have to help a lot of people recognize that let's just say they meet someone and let's just say this person has been alone for a long time they haven't felt a connection with someone a long time and let's throw in a little bit of boredom
fulfillment truly is an inside job and finding meaning in life and purpose in life that is something that truly begins with us and so I have to help a lot of people recognize that let's just say they meet someone and let's just say this person has been alone for a long time they haven't felt a connection with someone a long time and let's throw in a little bit of boredom
And a little bit of like, oh, I don't know, like, you know, there's nothing in my day that's really captivating me or captivating my attention. Let's just throw all that into this person. Make it a little bit of a perfect storm. And then they meet someone and they feel that chemistry with them.
And a little bit of like, oh, I don't know, like, you know, there's nothing in my day that's really captivating me or captivating my attention. Let's just throw all that into this person. Make it a little bit of a perfect storm. And then they meet someone and they feel that chemistry with them.
And a little bit of like, oh, I don't know, like, you know, there's nothing in my day that's really captivating me or captivating my attention. Let's just throw all that into this person. Make it a little bit of a perfect storm. And then they meet someone and they feel that chemistry with them.
What is triggered inside of them is aliveness, that aliveness that's been dormant for a long time because they've been waiting to feel this connection, because they're a little bit bored, because they haven't been doing things in their life that gives them sparks of joy or sparks of excitement, whatever it is.
What is triggered inside of them is aliveness, that aliveness that's been dormant for a long time because they've been waiting to feel this connection, because they're a little bit bored, because they haven't been doing things in their life that gives them sparks of joy or sparks of excitement, whatever it is.
What is triggered inside of them is aliveness, that aliveness that's been dormant for a long time because they've been waiting to feel this connection, because they're a little bit bored, because they haven't been doing things in their life that gives them sparks of joy or sparks of excitement, whatever it is.
And then we think, this person, and it's an unconscious thought, but this person is my ticket out of the monotony of my life. And they are the reason why I feel so good. When really, they are just the trigger. They're the stimulus, really, that triggers inside of you that dormant feeling. It's not really about them. Because first of all, they're a stranger.
And then we think, this person, and it's an unconscious thought, but this person is my ticket out of the monotony of my life. And they are the reason why I feel so good. When really, they are just the trigger. They're the stimulus, really, that triggers inside of you that dormant feeling. It's not really about them. Because first of all, they're a stranger.
And then we think, this person, and it's an unconscious thought, but this person is my ticket out of the monotony of my life. And they are the reason why I feel so good. When really, they are just the trigger. They're the stimulus, really, that triggers inside of you that dormant feeling. It's not really about them. Because first of all, they're a stranger.
Maybe if it develops into a real relationship, they become someone who adds to that and really does enhance your life tremendously. But right now, they're just a stranger.
Maybe if it develops into a real relationship, they become someone who adds to that and really does enhance your life tremendously. But right now, they're just a stranger.
Maybe if it develops into a real relationship, they become someone who adds to that and really does enhance your life tremendously. But right now, they're just a stranger.
And so I help a lot of people recognize that when they get all obsessive over someone who they barely know, that what's actually happening is for them to understand that that person is just the vehicle that has triggered something that actually exists inside of you already.
And so I help a lot of people recognize that when they get all obsessive over someone who they barely know, that what's actually happening is for them to understand that that person is just the vehicle that has triggered something that actually exists inside of you already.
And so I help a lot of people recognize that when they get all obsessive over someone who they barely know, that what's actually happening is for them to understand that that person is just the vehicle that has triggered something that actually exists inside of you already.
And that maybe if you learn how to meet your needs more, maybe if you evaluate your life and do more things that kind of make you feel alive, maybe it's, you know, it's not going to be the exact same thing as that, but you can feel moments of oneness that has nothing to do with another person and a romantic partner. Then we can start to craft a different story for that person.
And that maybe if you learn how to meet your needs more, maybe if you evaluate your life and do more things that kind of make you feel alive, maybe it's, you know, it's not going to be the exact same thing as that, but you can feel moments of oneness that has nothing to do with another person and a romantic partner. Then we can start to craft a different story for that person.
And that maybe if you learn how to meet your needs more, maybe if you evaluate your life and do more things that kind of make you feel alive, maybe it's, you know, it's not going to be the exact same thing as that, but you can feel moments of oneness that has nothing to do with another person and a romantic partner. Then we can start to craft a different story for that person.