Jillian Turecki

Absolutely. I do really believe that when you see a relationship as an opportunity to grow and not just as an opportunity to get your needs met, that's a beautiful thing. But it's also important to note sometimes the way in which you grow is to say no to certain people, you know, because they don't treat you well. But yeah, it's always...

Absolutely. I do really believe that when you see a relationship as an opportunity to grow and not just as an opportunity to get your needs met, that's a beautiful thing. But it's also important to note sometimes the way in which you grow is to say no to certain people, you know, because they don't treat you well. But yeah, it's always...

Look, when you have two people in a relationship who are willing to be like, oh, that really bothered me. Let me think. Is that me? Is that a me thing? Or is this something that I need to communicate with them about? That's the needle mover. Most people are not operating like that in a relationship, but it really makes a huge, huge difference.

Look, when you have two people in a relationship who are willing to be like, oh, that really bothered me. Let me think. Is that me? Is that a me thing? Or is this something that I need to communicate with them about? That's the needle mover. Most people are not operating like that in a relationship, but it really makes a huge, huge difference.

Look, when you have two people in a relationship who are willing to be like, oh, that really bothered me. Let me think. Is that me? Is that a me thing? Or is this something that I need to communicate with them about? That's the needle mover. Most people are not operating like that in a relationship, but it really makes a huge, huge difference.

No, we don't. We just, our egos are very stubborn.

No, we don't. We just, our egos are very stubborn.

No, we don't. We just, our egos are very stubborn.

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you have to always consider a person's character. And look, we all have work to do when it comes to our character, you know, and by character, I mean our integrity and our willingness to confront ourselves or our kindness. But I believe that we should all be striving to be good people and we should be wanting someone who's good, a good person who's generous and who's kind. Um,

you have to always consider a person's character. And look, we all have work to do when it comes to our character, you know, and by character, I mean our integrity and our willingness to confront ourselves or our kindness. But I believe that we should all be striving to be good people and we should be wanting someone who's good, a good person who's generous and who's kind. Um,

you have to always consider a person's character. And look, we all have work to do when it comes to our character, you know, and by character, I mean our integrity and our willingness to confront ourselves or our kindness. But I believe that we should all be striving to be good people and we should be wanting someone who's good, a good person who's generous and who's kind. Um,

That doesn't mean, to your point, that you're not every kind person you're going to be attracted to. But what you're looking for in terms of longevity in a relationship is, let's just start with the basics. Do you feel relaxed around this person? And do they feel relaxed around you? And what I mean by that is you can really be yourself. You can just truly be yourself.

That doesn't mean, to your point, that you're not every kind person you're going to be attracted to. But what you're looking for in terms of longevity in a relationship is, let's just start with the basics. Do you feel relaxed around this person? And do they feel relaxed around you? And what I mean by that is you can really be yourself. You can just truly be yourself.

That doesn't mean, to your point, that you're not every kind person you're going to be attracted to. But what you're looking for in terms of longevity in a relationship is, let's just start with the basics. Do you feel relaxed around this person? And do they feel relaxed around you? And what I mean by that is you can really be yourself. You can just truly be yourself.