Jillian Turecki

being potty trained for the first time and they finally do it and they feel proud of themselves like that's that's the building of self-esteem or like I grew up in New York City so it's like the first time that I actually took the public transportation by myself and then started doing that that builds self-esteem so we have to do hard things but there's two camps of thought you have to completely love yourself in order to be in a healthy relationship or you

being potty trained for the first time and they finally do it and they feel proud of themselves like that's that's the building of self-esteem or like I grew up in New York City so it's like the first time that I actually took the public transportation by myself and then started doing that that builds self-esteem so we have to do hard things but there's two camps of thought you have to completely love yourself in order to be in a healthy relationship or you

It does not matter. You learn to love yourself while you're in a relationship. And I see it somewhere in the middle, which is, no, you don't have to completely love. You can struggle with certain parts of yourself. And you don't have to be completely whole. And you do learn to love yourself in relationship.

It does not matter. You learn to love yourself while you're in a relationship. And I see it somewhere in the middle, which is, no, you don't have to completely love. You can struggle with certain parts of yourself. And you don't have to be completely whole. And you do learn to love yourself in relationship.

It does not matter. You learn to love yourself while you're in a relationship. And I see it somewhere in the middle, which is, no, you don't have to completely love. You can struggle with certain parts of yourself. And you don't have to be completely whole. And you do learn to love yourself in relationship.

But I've never known a person who was in a deeply unhealthy relationship or was really, really deeply struggling in their love life who didn't also struggle with their self-worth. So we can't say, while we can't say that you have to completely be in love yourself and completely be healed to be in a relationship, we also can't say that it's irrelevant.

But I've never known a person who was in a deeply unhealthy relationship or was really, really deeply struggling in their love life who didn't also struggle with their self-worth. So we can't say, while we can't say that you have to completely be in love yourself and completely be healed to be in a relationship, we also can't say that it's irrelevant.

But I've never known a person who was in a deeply unhealthy relationship or was really, really deeply struggling in their love life who didn't also struggle with their self-worth. So we can't say, while we can't say that you have to completely be in love yourself and completely be healed to be in a relationship, we also can't say that it's irrelevant.

Or you tolerate terrible behavior from someone.

Or you tolerate terrible behavior from someone.

Or you tolerate terrible behavior from someone.

And a lot of that is, there is a lot of cultural conditioning in that, for sure. Yeah.

And a lot of that is, there is a lot of cultural conditioning in that, for sure. Yeah.

And a lot of that is, there is a lot of cultural conditioning in that, for sure. Yeah.

Oh, God, that love is just a feeling.

Oh, God, that love is just a feeling.

Oh, God, that love is just a feeling.

That love is just what romanticism says it is, that you're going to meet someone and they're going to be able to read your mind and they're going to be perfect and you're going to be perfect for each other and you're going to be soulmates and you're never really going to run into problems because when you're with the right person, they're going to be able to finish your sentences. That's it.

That love is just what romanticism says it is, that you're going to meet someone and they're going to be able to read your mind and they're going to be perfect and you're going to be perfect for each other and you're going to be soulmates and you're never really going to run into problems because when you're with the right person, they're going to be able to finish your sentences. That's it.

That love is just what romanticism says it is, that you're going to meet someone and they're going to be able to read your mind and they're going to be perfect and you're going to be perfect for each other and you're going to be soulmates and you're never really going to run into problems because when you're with the right person, they're going to be able to finish your sentences. That's it.