Jillian Turecki

Yeah. But I will say that, you know, what women really need to feel safe and to feel seen is, is like, you know, a man who's just like, you can, you can unravel with me. Like you can, you know, like you don't have to like filter, you don't have to be perfect. That's a keeper.

Uh, women, I think, and you can verify this for me. I think that, um, Women who date men really underestimate how much he needs reassurance and to feel like he is enough. It's not just her. And part of what's really going to make him feel enough is to feel like he is adding value to her life. And, you know, I think what men need to learn is that he's actually not responsible for our happiness.

Uh, women, I think, and you can verify this for me. I think that, um, Women who date men really underestimate how much he needs reassurance and to feel like he is enough. It's not just her. And part of what's really going to make him feel enough is to feel like he is adding value to her life. And, you know, I think what men need to learn is that he's actually not responsible for our happiness.

Uh, women, I think, and you can verify this for me. I think that, um, Women who date men really underestimate how much he needs reassurance and to feel like he is enough. It's not just her. And part of what's really going to make him feel enough is to feel like he is adding value to her life. And, you know, I think what men need to learn is that he's actually not responsible for our happiness.

But what women need to learn is that, yes, that's true. And can you also be compassionate towards that heavy burden that he carries on his shoulders that he's making you happy?

But what women need to learn is that, yes, that's true. And can you also be compassionate towards that heavy burden that he carries on his shoulders that he's making you happy?

But what women need to learn is that, yes, that's true. And can you also be compassionate towards that heavy burden that he carries on his shoulders that he's making you happy?

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

That's why you always want to fix when there's a problem.

That's why you always want to fix when there's a problem.

That's why you always want to fix when there's a problem.

Right.

Right.

Right.

But you're going to be way more useful when sometimes you can just say, do you want me to try to fix this or do you just want me to listen? Yeah.

But you're going to be way more useful when sometimes you can just say, do you want me to try to fix this or do you just want me to listen? Yeah.

But you're going to be way more useful when sometimes you can just say, do you want me to try to fix this or do you just want me to listen? Yeah.

Usually the latter. And then afterwards when she feels hurt, then maybe we can, she's more open to problem solving.