Jillian Turecki
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presence i think i think that what men need to do is just have more presence with her i think that that's what we need is um look a woman who's secure in herself doesn't need her man's attention 24 7 but when we are hanging out and we are together um and if we have something that we need to get off our chest not necessarily about the other about him but just something that we're emoting um
presence i think i think that what men need to do is just have more presence with her i think that that's what we need is um look a woman who's secure in herself doesn't need her man's attention 24 7 but when we are hanging out and we are together um and if we have something that we need to get off our chest not necessarily about the other about him but just something that we're emoting um
presence i think i think that what men need to do is just have more presence with her i think that that's what we need is um look a woman who's secure in herself doesn't need her man's attention 24 7 but when we are hanging out and we are together um and if we have something that we need to get off our chest not necessarily about the other about him but just something that we're emoting um
When he can just be fully present and make it known through his body language and even through his words that she can rely on him to just listen to her feelings, that's huge. That is huge. You know, women, in general, we have just a very... complicated emotional body, emotional way of being. And we have, we just feel things. And I think that most of that is our hormonal system.
When he can just be fully present and make it known through his body language and even through his words that she can rely on him to just listen to her feelings, that's huge. That is huge. You know, women, in general, we have just a very... complicated emotional body, emotional way of being. And we have, we just feel things. And I think that most of that is our hormonal system.
When he can just be fully present and make it known through his body language and even through his words that she can rely on him to just listen to her feelings, that's huge. That is huge. You know, women, in general, we have just a very... complicated emotional body, emotional way of being. And we have, we just feel things. And I think that most of that is our hormonal system.
It's just very different. And then the fluctuations of our hormonal system is different than a man. And so it's when we can feel like, oh, you are not being distracted or you can just be really present with me. That's huge. I have to tell you, like, this hasn't happened in a while, but there have been times where I've been on dates where I'm talking to the guy and I can tell he's distracted.
It's just very different. And then the fluctuations of our hormonal system is different than a man. And so it's when we can feel like, oh, you are not being distracted or you can just be really present with me. That's huge. I have to tell you, like, this hasn't happened in a while, but there have been times where I've been on dates where I'm talking to the guy and I can tell he's distracted.
It's just very different. And then the fluctuations of our hormonal system is different than a man. And so it's when we can feel like, oh, you are not being distracted or you can just be really present with me. That's huge. I have to tell you, like, this hasn't happened in a while, but there have been times where I've been on dates where I'm talking to the guy and I can tell he's distracted.
Now, when I think back, I'm thinking, is he just in his head thinking about what his response is? Is he just like in his head? But I remember the feeling of just feeling like a dagger, like in my body, like that is the worst feeling ever. And I'm just like, I'm done with you. You know, I'm not going on another date with you.
Now, when I think back, I'm thinking, is he just in his head thinking about what his response is? Is he just like in his head? But I remember the feeling of just feeling like a dagger, like in my body, like that is the worst feeling ever. And I'm just like, I'm done with you. You know, I'm not going on another date with you.
Now, when I think back, I'm thinking, is he just in his head thinking about what his response is? Is he just like in his head? But I remember the feeling of just feeling like a dagger, like in my body, like that is the worst feeling ever. And I'm just like, I'm done with you. You know, I'm not going on another date with you.
And so I think that gender aside, what we can all do, where we can all improve is, you Not being so self-focused when we're communicating with someone and being more of the other self-focus. Like, what is this person trying to say? How can I understand this person more and what does this person actually need from me in this moment?
And so I think that gender aside, what we can all do, where we can all improve is, you Not being so self-focused when we're communicating with someone and being more of the other self-focus. Like, what is this person trying to say? How can I understand this person more and what does this person actually need from me in this moment?
And so I think that gender aside, what we can all do, where we can all improve is, you Not being so self-focused when we're communicating with someone and being more of the other self-focus. Like, what is this person trying to say? How can I understand this person more and what does this person actually need from me in this moment?
Yeah. But I will say that, you know, what women really need to feel safe and to feel seen is, is like, you know, a man who's just like, you can, you can unravel with me. Like you can, you know, like you don't have to like filter, you don't have to be perfect. That's a keeper.
Yeah. But I will say that, you know, what women really need to feel safe and to feel seen is, is like, you know, a man who's just like, you can, you can unravel with me. Like you can, you know, like you don't have to like filter, you don't have to be perfect. That's a keeper.